Mary79 Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 The guy I've been seeing told me a few days after my bday that his ex is pg & there's a possibility it could be his or someone elses. After he found out this news he started acting different bc he obviously has alot on his mind. The only advice I really gave him was to not over stress himself & that all he can really do is wait to find out. I know he's still stressed & I haven't seen him as much bc I think he needs to get himself together and figure things out. He told me he just wants me to give him some space so he can get his thoughts together bc he doesn't know where he's headed he just got laid off & he does have alot on his plate. I feel like since he told me to give him space I've been texting him/calling him more to the point that now he won't reply or call back right away like he's tired of me. I saw him lastnight & he told me again to just give him space for himself that he just needs time. I asked him if I was supposed to wait around for him to figure things out & he said that he wasn't saying he didn't wanna be with me just that he needs time. I am confused I like him alot & now when I see him posting stuff on his fb page or myspace adding friends I get all pARanoid. The other day one of his stupid female friends posted something on his fb age that she was mad at him bc he walked past her he looked her dead in the face & didn't say one word to her bc he was with another girl. I lost it & he said that he sent her a message screaming at her bc she's full of it bc she's normally a loud person like if he really did do that she wouldve said something on the spot bc she's loud like that. He said they hadn't spoken since that day & he erased her post. But I am not sure. He swore that he's not with her or anyone else but coming from messed up past relationships I have a terrible time trusting anyone. Then today he posted something to say happy mothers day and the same friend posted "thank you xoxo" & another one posted "thanx babes" & it made me have pains in my stomach maybe I'm overreacting I just get nervous bc he wants space & part of me is wondering if he's making space for someone else. I texted him earlier asking him if he wanted to hangout tonight & he replied "idk maybe". I Am confused right now & a little nervous. I do like him alot I just don't wanna mess up something before it even starts. Link to comment
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