epson391 Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 2 Months to the day that me and ex split up and I went NC, she breaks NC and says how she is so sorry and how she ruined her life and everything and is having like a break down. She did have a rebound like a week after we split and im guessing there still together but I just figured that I was only a memory to her at this point, why would she just text me randomly. Link to comment
luckyman Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 She misses you. Good job on the NC by the way, any response planned yet or are you sticking to nc? Link to comment
DN Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 If she is still with her rebound then don't respond. If she isn't and wants to reconcile then make sure that is what you really want and that both of you know how to fix what went wrong in the relationship. But guard your heart here - she has alreadu wounded it once. Link to comment
epson391 Posted May 9, 2010 Author Share Posted May 9, 2010 My plan is to stay NC for now, last I heard she was still with her new bf. But I did find out she got into a huge fight with her best and kinda only friend she has left the day before she texted me! Link to comment
DN Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 Well, if she made a mistake she needs to fix it. It's not your job to fix it for her. Link to comment
epson391 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 However, obviously something was bothering her for her to text me at complete random time. I figured I was only a memory to her by now. Link to comment
coolchick64 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 ^^^^ yeah, well, it's not exactly random to her. She's apparently flipping out. And obviously you aren't a memory, either. Very interesting . . . but I agree with DN. It's important to know whether she's still with the other guy before you proceed. Link to comment
Carus Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Oh dear.....well here's what happened to me..... My ex announced to me that she had feelings for this new guy. I went NC as best I could... Then the contacts would come....usually around the every 2 months mark.... I would hear such false hopes building statements such as: "He's just not you. Noone will ever replace you. We dont communicate as well....blah blah blah" And you want to know where she is now almost a year later? Still with him... The contact has now ceased as she has finally settled with him and moved on. I am still crying over the loss of our world..... So anyway, mine got lucky with her rebound situation. Yours may not, but I just thought I'd share my story as a small warning... Proceed with caution.... K2* Link to comment
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