Live-N-Learn Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 I have posted my story in other threads but the short version is she broke up with me in Jan. Never totally went away, played games for 3 months and finally I had enough and told her nicely that it was over and I was moving on and so should she. Today I believe is 18 days of NC for me and I was doing much better. I went to bday party of a friend last night with a date and we always rent a trolley bus and go bar hopping. Well I show up with my date to the trolley and my friend tells me my ex will be coming with a date. That he saw her last night and his friend invited her, and she asked if I was coming. They said they did now know if I would be there or not. As you can imagine my heart started pounding in my chest. It really kinda messed with me for awhile. Well she ended up not coming (thank God)! But it stirred up a bunch of emotions in me that really hit me this morning. When I wrote me ex the goodbye email she asked in her reply if she could come by and pick up her sons toy or if I would drop it off at her work. I told her I would mail it. I did and she got it 10 days ago. Well around 11am today I get an email from her, first one in 18 days. Neither of us has broke NC til today. It says. Scott, "Hey, i know im not supossed to be messaging you, but i forgot to thank you for mailing tristens toy, he was very excited. Thank you for that." I almost lost it, I was so pissed she would cross the line and care so little for my feelings to write me this email. Don't get me wrong it's not the email that has me so mad it's the fact that she got the toy 10 days ago and could have sent a thank you anytime. She sends it the day after the party she knew I was attending , and she was not attending most likely because she thought I would be there. Well a lot of our mutual friends saw my date and I having a blast! She is beautiful, fun and everything I could want in a lady. I think one of our friends told her today about my date last night and that she really is just making an excuse to to say thank you now to see where she stands. I think she is fishing to see if I will take the bait cuz she thinks she might be losing her backup for good. How selfish! She could care less how much it hurts me and sets me back to have almost seen her last night with a date while I was on a date. And then getting her text today. Am I losing my mind and reading too much into this? Bad day today I really miss her and hate her at the same time. I don't plan to respond. Right decision? Link to comment
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