SadAndy Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 some of you on here will probably be aware of my situation but for those who aren't. My long term ex (14yrs) dumped me in Feb 10 for a man who is 12yrs younger than her. She is 33, he is 21 and our daughter is 8. She has known this guy since about early Dec 09 and moved him in 2 days after I moved out. He is now in the process of taking out a large mortgage with her and they have seriously discussed marriage and having children very soon, with my daughter. My ex had 2 long term affairs (1x 6 mth and 1x 18mth both with the same guy, not the one shes with now.) The last of these affairs ended only when she met this new guy. What I want to know partially out of spite and partially out of concern for stability for my daughter is what is the general consensus on the speed of these decisions. Also, does the large age gap have any bearing? Thanks guys. Link to comment
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