Realisations that are hard to swallow...

[Sam-b]

Hi,

 

as u already know I'm still living with my ex. I'm trying to move on the best I can but it's hard when they are staring u in the face.

 

I admit I do love her but I have realised things over the past few days because. I need to move on.

 

Ive realise this....

 

She fell out of love a long time ago.

She obviously stayed in an attempt to make it work.

She was selfish in the way she has done things.

The grass is greener to her.

 

I was branded the following...

 

I'm a bad dad.

I am a liar and a cheat (which I never did)

im a crap partener.

 

Now why should I stand fir that?

 

I lived 250 miles away from my family for 4 years and do the very best for my family. Yes I have my bad points but I have always gad a good heart and was always loyal.

 

I feel stripped bare, I was a man, now I am a shell of a man because of her put downs, insecurities and general neglect.

 

That is how you feel when u can see the woman u love walk away and tell u all this. It's horrible.

 

One lesson I have learned.... If they are not happy now, they never will be.

 

I need to move on but Im struggling to find myself. I just need somebody who u know loves you unconditional.

 

Don't make somebody a priority in your life if you are only an option in theirs.

[Starbourne]

 

Don't make somebody a priority in your life if you are only an option in theirs.

 

Best advice of the century.