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as u already know I'm still living with my ex. I'm trying to move on the best I can but it's hard when they are staring u in the face.


I admit I do love her but I have realised things over the past few days because. I need to move on.


Ive realise this....


She fell out of love a long time ago.

She obviously stayed in an attempt to make it work.

She was selfish in the way she has done things.

The grass is greener to her.


I was branded the following...


I'm a bad dad.

I am a liar and a cheat (which I never did)

im a crap partener.


Now why should I stand fir that?


I lived 250 miles away from my family for 4 years and do the very best for my family. Yes I have my bad points but I have always gad a good heart and was always loyal.


I feel stripped bare, I was a man, now I am a shell of a man because of her put downs, insecurities and general neglect.


That is how you feel when u can see the woman u love walk away and tell u all this. It's horrible.


One lesson I have learned.... If they are not happy now, they never will be.


I need to move on but Im struggling to find myself. I just need somebody who u know loves you unconditional.


Don't make somebody a priority in your life if you are only an option in theirs.

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