When does chasing become to much or smothering?

[AlwayzRight]

Curious? I know the man is supposed to do the chasing but when does it become too much?

[Cognitive_Canine]

It depends on the person.

 

In my experience, mirroring the effort and amount of contact is the best. If you call her once, you wait for her to call you. If you set up a date, you wait for her to set up a date. She can't say you're doing too little or too much effort when she's doing the exact same amount.

[Capricorn3]

It's probably too much when she's not responding at all, which shows total lack of interest on her side. That's when you know you should stop.

[AlwayzRight]

It depends on the person.

 

In my experience, mirroring the effort and amount of contact is the best. If you call her once, you wait for her to call you. If you set up a date, you wait for her to set up a date. She can't say you're doing too little or too much effort when she's doing the exact same amount.

 

True.....lets say I sent her a text last week ask asking her how her week was going, with no response. Then I called her Sunday night and said "Hey whats up, giving you a call, wanted to say hi. If you get a chance give me a call....with no response.

 

The question is, do I stop? .............................

[agent1607307371]

Yes.

 

If she gets back to you, she gets back to you.

 

A call and a txt is plenty if she hasn't responded.

[orchidrose]

If this is in regards to the woman you've been writing about for several threads now, it's time to leave her alone. She is sending you very clear signals that she's not interested in a relationship and not interested in speaking with you.

[epicproportion]

I would definitely say that you've done as much as you should. You have initiated contacted twice with no response if there is interest on her end you will hear back from her,if not just move on.

[AlwayzRight]

I will never understand woman...I am starting to think I will be alone forever.

[orchidrose]

I will never understand woman...I am starting to think I will be alone forever.

 

What are you having a tough time understanding? Maybe we can provide some insight.

[adamt]

you need to look at it from the otherside of the fence...what would you do if a girl contacted you 3-4 times to want to go out. what would you do if a) you are interested b) you are not interested.

[AlwayzRight]

you need to look at it from the otherside of the fence...what would you do if a girl contacted you 3-4 times to want to go out. what would you do if a) you are interested b) you are not interested.

 

That is not what it is, and it is not what you think........

 

didnt contact them to "go out".....

[eggplant47]

When your hiding in her bushes sweating and chain smoking.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Is this the girl that already told you she wasn't interested in a relationship? Or a new girl?