Orgasm and Notice

[MD Geist]

This was something else I've always wondered about sex and based on other threads and postings do people really wanna know when their partner is about to orgasm?

 

Like do you perfer a notice of some type wheither it be a verbal notice like "here I cum" or a simple squeeze of the hand from your partner or to cominicate with your partner that you are about to finish?

 

Or

 

Do you prefer for them to have their orgasm unannounced and allow it to just happen?

[Capricorn3]

Do you prefer for them to have their orgasm unannounced and allow it to just happen?

It depends where it's about to happen. If on the outer body, then yes, I would like to know. If on the inside, then no, no need to tell me, lol.

[-Sanguine-]

if I'm giving head, then yes, I would like a warning, lol! even though I swallow, it's still nice to know when it's going to happen or some rough idea...

 

but during sex, it doesn't matter to me. either way is fine, though he usually tells me.

[Organs]

Well, when you're doing a girl, you'll know when she orgasms. It's like being just on the outside of a baseball park and knowing when the home team scores a home run.

 

The only other thing to keep in mind is, while a man comes once and he's done as dinner, a woman can go for three, four, maybe five or more climaxes in one......well, I'll go with "session".

 

Basically, I just try and get her off at least twice before I focus on my own pleasure. In the meantime, I try to temper my feelings with really unsexy thoughts, just to pace myself.

[eskimogirl]

I have never really thought about this. He used to warn me in the beginning when I was giving oral but now it is just unannounced and I like it that way.

[mandyc]

Yes I like to know.

[greywolf]

I like knowing because it just makes sex more exciting and... sexier when I know he's coming.

[hers]

I'm able to tell with my boyfriend, even without him telling me. I'm pretty sure he's able to tell with me as well. With him, he starts jackhammering me like a 15 year old boy, going extremely fast, which I hate! I always tell him to slow down, which sometimes makes him lose it! Whoops...but he keeps a nice pace the whole time, so when he's going much faster, I know he's close.

 

Other guys I've been with have had the similar tells as well. Like loud breathing, faster pace, throwing their head back.

 

Sex is all about reading your partner. If you can't tell, then you need to pay more attention! But like capricorn said, unless it's a matter of where on the body, I don't need an announcement of it.

[thejigsup]

I've always kind of known. It's not rocket science.

[HouseKitten]

I can normally tell. His breathing speeds up, he starts really pounding me, etc etc. Sometimes if I'm close then I'll say but he can normally tell with me too, saying it outloud is just kind of sexy sometimes

[ibu]

If me and a partner are having penetration sex, then no, there's no need to tell me.

However, since I don't like to swallow, I'd appreciate a warning when I'm giving a blow job.

And even though I'm not crying out when I'm orgasming, my partner can usually tell...my breathing speeds up at least, it's a tell-tale sign.

[Cognitive_Canine]

During sex, no reason to tell me.

 

During oral, hells yes he must tell me. "I'm about to cum" suffices.

 

I've been giving my boyfriend head for years, I can't tell when he's cumming. I can tell during sex because his thrusting changes.

[arcadefire]

I think it's such a turn on when my bf breathily lets out that he's about to cum. Plus it's not that hard to tell physically, the look on his face, his grunts, a little blushing. It's rather hot.

[MakestheBest]

Its very easy to tell on men. And with othe boyfriends they could always tell, my last ex needed me to tell him. But there are a bunch of false starts during sex and its sensitive so I really like to 'concentrate' lol. I don't usually know when I'm cuming until I'm doing it.