Have I done the right thing?

[oceanflame]

Iam 19, a few month ago a female I liked aged 27, decided to get into a realtionship with another friend on mine, a male who is 30.

 

Today I sent her a text message saying her going out with someone else, has made me feel rejected and used.

I send her another text message today saying I never want to see or contact her again.

She replied saying she still wants to be friends and stuff like that.

 

 

What should I do, whats the best move?

[Keyman]

I think you are overreacting because you feel rejected. As the old saying goes, you need to build a bridge and get over it. Unfortunately you may have burned some bridges ( I think today is bridge cliche day!) with her. Unless you are completely happy with your actions, which I assume you are not because you are asking about it on here, I think you should apologise and tell her you would still like to be friends eventually once you have dealt with your issues.

[alli]

Well, you called her a female friend so it's not like she cheated on you. You had a thing for her, but did she ever have a thing for you? I'm sure it sucks, but there's not much you can do about it. Might be a bit harsh what you said to her, but you are entitled to your feelings and if it helps you heal faster to keep your distance from her, so be it.

[annie24]

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