jillianiyp Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I know ALOT of people judge... and i was just wondering, right now i have a 4 1/2 month old baby, and i totally dont want to get pregnant again ALREADY... but if i did... would people judge me? Link to comment
Sanesoul Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I guess it would depend on the circumstances. Are you a single mother? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I think that people are going to judge you no matter what you do. If you dont want to get pregnant again then take precautions that will decrease the possibility of you getting pregnant. Link to comment
jillianiyp Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 I'm married... and its not that i dont want to get pregnant again, i just dont want to so soon... maybe in a year or half a year or so... Link to comment
Sanesoul Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 If you are married, then I don't see a problem. If you don't want to be pregnant again so soon, then you should worry about precaution rather than judgment. Link to comment
jillianiyp Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 Also i was wondering, since i'm breastfeeding and dont get my period... how would i even know if i did get prego again if i dont get morning sickness or any of that... Link to comment
Pinnsvini Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I'd worry more about the strain on you; two infants would be extremely challenging work. And honestly, some people may judge because of your age if you were to have more; you're in your very early twenties, and two children may seem like too much, too soon. And you would know by continuing to use contraception during sex even though you are breastfeeding; you can get pregnant again theoretically as soon as you've given birth, yet a common misconception is that you don't while breastfeeding or for a certain amount of time. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 If you do not want to get pregnant use precautions, many many people get pregnant breast feeding if they do not use precautions. Link to comment
jillianiyp Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 yeah, no i know that you can most definitely get pregnant when you're still breastfeeding... I wasnt really asking whether or not i would get pregnant, i'm fully aware it is a possibility although maybe not very likely, i just wanted to know if i would be judged for it. And thanks for your opinion... it is clear to me now that i would be judged. Everything i do i get judged for i guess. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Why would you care if they did? It's none of their damn business. Oh, sure, some of them will still formulate an opinion ("judgment") on it....they have a right to. People form opinions on things that are none of their business or that they know nothing about all the time. You have an equal and opposite right to ignore them. I'd suggest you use it. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It is not a judgement, just a fact. It happens. No one said anything judgemental. Getting pregnant is entirely up to you. People are trying to help you. You asked for opinions. No one knows what you do know or do not know unless you tell them, right? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 The only person that you have to worry about, as far as judging you, is not a member of "ENA." Link to comment
c8lin062 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Yes, you will be judged. People are going to say "You guys sure didn't waste any time..." blah blah BLAHHH. The question is if you care what they say, and it seems you do. But remember, people may judge you whether its for getting pregnant again so soon, or for another reason, or another... People suck. Link to comment
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