Eh Im Canadian Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 I have often wondered if there is a certain way people will act when talking to someone they like. I know there is lots of body language you can look for, but when you are near someone you really like, it is kind of hard to remember stuff like that. So, I was wondering if there is a certain "clues" that people (boys or girls) give off if they like someone. This is in speech only, because it is really hard to remember body language other than eye contact and touching. For example, I know that if I like someone, then I try to be really good friends with them, and talk about life in general. I will ask how someone's day ahs gone, and whether or not tthey feel happy today. These are the ones that I notice, but there are probably more. Thank you so much. Link to comment
Hannibal Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 You don't really need to pick up on their body language, your sub-conscious will do that work for you. Its how we can sense tension between two people and that kind of stuff. You somehow just know what they're thinking by the way that they act. Link to comment
Silent Man Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 ^^^^Exactly what I was gonna say. Link to comment
mahlina Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 Hello, Clues. I know, it's tough to differentiate when two people like each other huh? For me, it's weird, because at first, I'll be myself around him (if I'm comfortable), but after a while, I'll shy away. Literally. I'll stop being myself for a while, perhaps, shortly after hello (on the 2nd date or 2nd time hanging out in a group of frends.) That's just how it's always been for me in the past. Then, after a while, I'll warm up again, depending on the bond. Other clues- 'Blushing,' especially when the guy teases me, by cracking up innocent jokes. I can't help it, so blushing is a 'natural' response that people can't really help. In fact, if I think about it even more, I find that I blush even more. 'Smiling'-glancing here and there. Subtleties, like aknowledging, but at the him at the ame time, by responding to his 'small talk,' but once again shying away. Other subconscious reactions- Hair pruning, playing with my pendent, showing my wrist (exposing it a certain way, I catch myself doing this once in a while, around a guy who I'm attracted to), my palms start to get a little sweaty (emberassing) , and a little tugging, like "Hey buddy, quit teasing me..." (innocent teasing). Link to comment
Eh Im Canadian Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 I know that you can sense body language, I was just using that as an example to contrast what I was asking for, I am looking for non-body language things that people do when they like someone. Things that they say, the tone they talk to you in, all of that good stuff. Link to comment
Eh Im Canadian Posted May 21, 2004 Author Share Posted May 21, 2004 Oh, sorry mahlina, I was in the middle of typing my reply when you posted. Yeah, that is basically what I was looking for. Thank you so much for helping me. Link to comment
Kitz Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 If I really like a guy, I usually get really nervous and start talking faster and louder than I usually do, and then I go and do something stupid like, as i'm walking off, trip over a chair or walk into a pole. xDD Link to comment
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