Like the friend of the friend with benefits?

[Keraron]

Imagine the following situation:

 

you have a "friend with benefits" since 2 years and occasionally meet him, travel with him, are good friends, kiss him, but nothing more than that happens.

 

He introduces you to a friend of him, whom you spend some time with alone and you feel that you really would like to date or be in a serious relationship with him.

 

How would you behave? Would you reveal him your feelings?

Would you feel that you are "betraying" your friend-with-benefits?

 

Please tell honestly how you would personally behave, and not what is the most ideal way to behave.

[pinkelephant]

i wouldn't think i'm betraying my friend-with-benefits. as the saying goes, you snooze you lose. The FWB didn't bother to kick it up a notch for 2 years. He lost his chance.

[annie24]

i wouldn't think i'm betraying my friend-with-benefits. as the saying goes, you snooze you lose. The FWB didn't bother to kick it up a notch for 2 years. He lost his chance.

 

i agree as well.

[KG]

He had 2 years....he blew it.

[catfeeder]

How do you know the FWB wasn't fixing you up?

 

If not, that's 2 years worth of "too bad, so sad".

 

I'd go for it.