Next move

[G3LesPaul]

Hello. I finally grew a pair (yay me) to go up and talk to this girl that lives accross my hall and is in one of my classes.

 

I sat next to her and introduced myself and went from there. I found out some information about her and then when class ended, walk with her back to the room before she had to go out shopping.

 

All in all, I think it went well (maybe I just want it to be that way)

 

So whats the next step? Lunch? Number

 

Advice please! Thanks!

[abitbroken]

If that is the first time that you ever talked to her for more than a sentence, the next step is to have another conversation with her to get to know her more. It doesn't have to automatically jump to a date.

[Day_Walker]

Well she lives accross the hall from you, I would just be friendly with her and see if she wants to get some lunch. Eventually you are going to have to get her number but I would start with lunch first.

[G3LesPaul]

How long should I wait till I ask her to lunch?

[Dinka]

How long should I wait till I ask her to lunch?

 

Well, if she lives accross the hall from you, why not wait until you run into her a few times and strike up a few conversations. It doesn't have to be a date, either...It can be a casual get-together. You can always just say, "Oh, hey...I'm on my way out to lunch/grab a coffee/save the world want to join?"

[G3LesPaul]

Well, if she lives accross the hall from you, why not wait until you run into her a few times and strike up a few conversations. It doesn't have to be a date, either...It can be a casual get-together. You can always just say, "Oh, hey...I'm on my way out to lunch/grab a coffee/save the world want to join?"

 

Thanks but would this put me in the friend zone?

 

I am really trying to be put in the friend zone. Do I have to be sure its called a date?

[notsogood]

I'm guessing this is a dorm hall you live in. Just go knock on her door like today before lunch and ask if she wants to eat with you. I assume you both eat in the cafeteria? If that goes well then next time ask her out somewhere off campus = win = no friend zone.

[Dinka]

Thanks but would this put me in the friend zone?

 

I am really trying to be put in the friend zone. Do I have to be sure its called a date?

 

I don't think one casual lunch will get you stuck in the "friend zone." See how things go with a casual get-together and then ask her if she'd like to go out sometime. ("Go out sometime" is a nice way of saying "date" without saying "date," I think).