Sex first time and kinda scared

[DragonSlayerX]

Hiya me and my gf plan to sleep 2gether when i go see her she is ok with it and everythign but its my first time and iam kinda scared about it i dunno y i just am so if you have any tips just say so thanx...

[Hannibal]

It should come fairly naturally, kind of like kissing. If you have troubles just ask for a little help, she should be understanding because it is your first time.

[Sebulous]

im in the same boat as you. I nervous cause in 15 hours, me and my girl are going to do it for our 1st time. so ya...

[laroxes]

There is no expiration date or deadline for the first time. Take it slow & when you are ready it will come natural & feel like the right thing to do. I guarantee you that she is kinda scared wanting to make it good for you. Don't force it.

[DragonSlayerX]

Thanx for your help ppl tell me iam doing the wrong thing but we wanna express our love that way

[JonnyG]

just remember to wear a condom and have fun. You'll b fine.

[DragonSlayerX]

ya umm condom thats a prob right there she kinda doesnt like condoms...thats much..

[Meow18]

Well I hope you are using some kind of protection.. it would suck for her to get pregnant, or for anything to go bad.. Make sure you know all the possible consequences & such of having sex too.

[DragonSlayerX]

lol well she kinda hates condoms and well she told me she wouldnt mind getting preg but if she does she said i havta b there for her and ya but wat kinda of protection are there...and were can i a 15 year old get one?

[Meow18]

But do you mind if she gets pregnant?? Do your parents mind?? Does her parents mind?? Having a child is tons of responsibilty & if you have a child at 15, your going to miss out on a lot! I think its quite selfish of her. 15 year olds shouldn't be having sex anyway, she obviously doesn't know the consequences & what its actually like to have a child if she doesn't want you to wear a condom & says she doesn't care if she gets pregnant. She could go on the pill, but that won't protect you both from stds. Really think about the consequences.. Is it worth not using a condom??

[DragonSlayerX]

yes i know a child is alot of responsly but iam willing to take it so is she one of my friends said she was going to send me money to help.

[guitargirl]

COME ON PEOPLE!!! you are to young to be having sex. and without a condom? you must be joking! I bet you're just trying to tick everybody off.

 

If she gets pregnant, you can look forwards to these lovely things:

**Balancing school and taking care of the kid-- who takes care of him/her while you are at school?

**Well, it's a big commitment, and if you are not willing to marry the girl, then that kid might have a little trouble at first.

**Paying for food, doctor appointments, clothing, etc.

**Getting a job

**Balancing a job, school, and taking care of him/her

**Explaining to your parents and hers

**Also, having unprotected sex could result in sexually transmitted disease!!! Try explaining that to your parents!!!

[Caldus]

Your choice if you want to have sex at 15, but if you're going to do it, then please just protect yourself so you don't get STD's...

[Trev]

Sex when 15? It's your choice but I don't think you should, I know I wouldn't. Like everyone else has said, kids are huge resposibilites. My niece and nephew lived with me for a few months and I was about to go crazy. I love them with all my heart but they got annoying...

[Sirus]

I here ya, 15 is very young to be havin sex at. However i can also appreciate that when you are young, and with someone you really care about sometimes its all you can thionk about, (thoink meant to be think, damn fat fingers, have to type with nose)

 

Best of luck Sirus