how do i tell her?

[ddriver7]

Okay, theres a girl i've been wanting to go out with for a few months now. I know she likes me too, but she has a boyfriend now. Anyway, everyone has given me advice to tell her how i feel and take it from there. My problem is i don't know how to bring it up or what to say. What do they mean by "tell her how u feel?" Should I just say "i like you" or what? How do i explain it to her? How do i start that conversation? I've never had to do this before. Thanks

[kufena]

I don't think anyone can tell you how to do this - nor indeed can anyone tell you what 'tell her how I feel' means - what do you feel?

 

In 20 years, I've only ever told four women how I felt, by:

 

- letter from Germany (where I was living at the time)

- walking around at 3am trying to find someone's car so I could leave a note on her windscreen - which she found - this was the day before she moved away.

- by e-mail

- erm - face-to-face but she told me (actually she didn't - but she'd guessed).

 

The best and most romantic way is just to be natural about it.

 

Have to say, though, that of those four, they all turned me down - the last one, last thursday