Keraron Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 How to understand whether a girl who likes (liked?) you suddenly stopped the enthusiatic and passionate contact because a) she is giving up on you, e.g. because she thinks that you like her only as a friend and nor "more" or b) she doesn't like you anymore and is trying to avoid you so that you don't make any first move? I really need this some answers seriously and quite urgently. Please share any ideas. What hints should I look out for? What kind of behavior is more like "giving up" and what kind is more of "avoiding"? What are the distinguishing features of these two types of behavior? I really need some ideas. PLEASE!!!!! Link to comment
quirky Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 Have you made a move on her? Is she aware you see her more than a friend? Link to comment
quirky Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 Sorry I just read that you haven't.! what has the contact been like? Face to face, on the phone, have you gone on dates? Link to comment
getupkid82 Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 i wish i knew the answer to this as i am in the same situation, it sucks. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 If you haven't made any move on her then perhaps she has given up. If I recall she gave you plenty of hints of her feelings and you failed to act on them so perhaps that is why she has backed away. Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 5, 2009 Author Share Posted October 5, 2009 Sorry I just read that you haven't.! what has the contact been like? Face to face, on the phone, have you gone on dates? I wrote the entire story here... But I simply have no clue where to start. It seems the most impossible task of my life. I can't sleep, can't eat, get headaches.. because of this... ... The main reason I am unsure about making the move is that I don't want to loose her as a friend either!! She's not only my friend, but an essential part of my closer social network, my family, family friends, my best friends, etc. I don't want to put a pressure on her that will cause her to abandon me also as a friend... Link to comment
lucyblue10 Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 Why don't you just tell her you like her/ have feelings for her? Do it in a letter (handwritten) if it's easier. It will allow her space to think about what you've said and how to respond. Doesn't have to be poetic or fancy, just write it from the heart. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 You could end up losing her as a friend anyway. If she has deeper feelings for you and you have not acted on them, she could just end up walking away from you rather than feeling frustrated all the time. Link to comment
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