Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Have you ever asked advice on how to get a specific girl... and then actually got that girl?? I am asking this because of my own failures. I have the impression (and experience) that whenever I need to ask advice about a very specific situation, from friends and from a forum, I am destined to fail anyway. The only advice that seems to work is general advice, that can work with many people... but whenever I ask something about a very specific situation, how to save a relationship with a specific girl, how to approach that one girl I like... I always fail. I am asking because I would like to hear some positive testimonials, just for the sake of encouraging myself... just to know whether asking advice is useful afterall... Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 No replies. So, I guess, it is useless asking advice...? Link to comment
quirky Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Advice from other people can help us gain perspective sometimes as we can be very wrapped up into what we feel/think. Once we hear that advice, we choose what to keep/dismiss and ultimately we listen to our own voice. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Sometimes people can take the advice of others but the way they apply the advice is different so that it doesn't work. For example, if someone advises you to go up to a woman and ask her out..so you do..but you approach the woman by saying "hey baby, how's about you and I go grab dinner sometime and then go back to my place for fun"..the woman rolls her eyes and says no. So the delivery is just as important as the method used. Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 Great... I was asking for your experience and nobody has answered any positive story so far. I guess this means that everyone who followed advice on this forum as well never had any success? Link to comment
quirky Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 I'm not sure what you're after, do you mean in dating? Because the post is in Personal Growth. I have followed advice given to me regarding my ex which gave me clarity and helped me leave him. I consider that the advice given made a POSITIVE change in my love life.. Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 I was asking for positive experiences regarding advice on how to get a specific girl. If there is no such positive experience, it means that asking on forums already means failure. Link to comment
waveseer Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Define 'get' please. Get her to talk with you? Like you? Go out with you? Kiss you? Have sex with you? Fall in love with you? Marry you? Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 Define 'get' please. Get her to talk with you? Like you? Go out with you? Kiss you? Have sex with you? Fall in love with you? Marry you? Anything positive, as opposed to reject, refuse, break-up, cheat, friend-zone, and the usual stuff people come here to complain about... Link to comment
waveseer Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Anything positive, as opposed to reject, refuse, break-up, cheat, friend-zone, and the usual stuff people come here to complain about... Well, the best way to get her to smile at you is to smile at her. You could start there. If you have success then the next step is talking. Say hello and you will probably get her to talk to you. And so on: If you want to get her to spend time with you, offer to spend time with her. get to know you, get to know her go out with you, offer to go out with her kiss you or hold your hand, kiss her or hold her hand that's how it works Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 Well, the best way to get her to smile at you is to smile at her. You could start there. If you have success then the next step is talking. Say hello and you will probably get her to talk to you. And so on: If you want to get her to spend time with you, offer to spend time with her. get to know you, get to know her go out with you, offer to go out with her kiss you or hold your hand, kiss her or hold her hand that's how it works My question here was: did such advice ever work when people came here and asked for specific advice on specific people they liked? Link to comment
waveseer Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 My question here was: did such advice ever work when people came here and asked for specific advice on specific people they liked? I sure hope so. If it doesn't work for you I'll give you a full refund. Link to comment
Keraron Posted October 3, 2009 Author Share Posted October 3, 2009 I sure hope so. If it doesn't work for you I'll give you a full refund. I wonder then why nobody replies... Link to comment
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