JcIzzy Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 My best friend, who's the only thing I care about in the world, said she was in love with me recently, and it felt better than anything I've ever felt, but 3 days ago she took it back, and now she's in love with someone else, it feels like I'm being consumed from the inside out, I can't take it anymore. Can anyone tell me what pills will kill me the fastest? Link to comment
Merrick Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 You come on here for help killing yourself? I think you've missed the point of the forum. Link to comment
avman Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Don't consider killing yourself just because your "friend" can't make up her mind. Trust me, she really isn't worth it. If she changed her mind that fast then she clearly has no idea what she wants. Link to comment
mca1975 Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 I am assuming that you had feelings for her anyhow then, and her admission meant a lot to you. She has mucked you about and it must hurt yes, but don't take your life over it. I hope you were saying that in jest. What about your family and other friends... Link to comment
JcIzzy Posted September 23, 2009 Author Share Posted September 23, 2009 She's the only thing that matters to me, I've been in love with her since I met her... Link to comment
avman Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 She's the only thing that matters to me, I've being in love with her since I met her... You can't pin all your happiness in life to one person. It doesn't work very well because you have no control over your own destiny. I can understand you love her very much but you have to look outside of that love in addition. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 You will love others. You seem pretty young. I remember being young and thinking my boyfriends at the time were the "love of my life". Now I'm like hahaha what?? The odds are, you'll find someone else to be with someday that knows what she wants: you. Link to comment
JcIzzy Posted September 23, 2009 Author Share Posted September 23, 2009 The odds are, you'll find someone else to be with someday Will she be this girl? Link to comment
avman Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Will she be this girl? Not necessarily. But there are around 7 billion people on the planet. The odds are good there is more than one person that can be the right person for you. Link to comment
JcIzzy Posted September 23, 2009 Author Share Posted September 23, 2009 She's the only perfect person for me Link to comment
mca1975 Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Everyone has more than one person in the world they could get on with, become companions with, be attracted to. The whole 'there is only one person' is a load of codswollop. You love her because she is so very familiar to you. Yeh she is probably a great person and you are attracted to her, but you know her so well, she is very familiar and comfortable. But she is a good friend of yours and she has really mucked you about which is kinda cruel. I totally agree with the other posters about not laying all your happiness in one person. I loved someone and they died tragically and I was left so empty because I forgot to have a life when I was with him. I have also been dumped and hurt and felt the pain even more because I forgot to have a life outside my relationship. This is why I'm so mental on doing my own thing and having our own lives in my relationship now, which my BF doesnt always understand. I would chalk this up as experience and learn from it. But I am very sorry that you have been hurt in this way.. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 I'm speaking from experience. No I have not wanted to kill myself over a boy, but I have thought with more than one person when I was young that they were "the one" and I would never love anyone again. But I did. I'm tellin you, you will laugh at this some day. Link to comment
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