getting_on_ok Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Alright so I have been mending a broken heart. But I have to laugh at myself after reading some of these stories. 5 year relationship, 4 years, 3 years. Mine lasted 1 year. And to tell you the truth the girl I dated was biotch. She disrespected me over and over. Never cared about, told a whole gym, her whole family about our problems. I went to counseling with her what a waste of time. I was with her every day and I tried to make it good, but how can you when you have a person disrespect you over and over again. I am not perfect, but I now looking at the relationship different. The main problem was I was too good for her and I had way more things going for me. I will never settle again. She really pulled the wool over my eyes. I just wish I can have a chance to have her come back and tell her sorry but I have a wonderful girlfriend that respects me has a great personality and is way hotter. I was too loyal and I tried to make it work. In the end I was kicked over and over again left for dead. But that was a mistake because I'll be back even better then before. Do I still think about her everyday, the one problem I have is thinking of her with another man. But I know time will get rid of that as well. Link to comment
arcadefire Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Good for you! I'm happy to hear that you finally realized that the relationship would have never worked out, and you're doing better. Keep up the great work! Link to comment
getting_on_ok Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 I still think about her but I am getting! And I still miss her but, the bad times out numbered the good ones. Link to comment
angeliamce Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Maybe we give too much time to the people who hurt us......why, because a relationship with someone that tried and it didn't work out...is just that,,,,,wasn't meant to be.....but a relationship with someone that hurt us and they didn't do their part always feels uncomplete.......there's a need for it to be fixed. But the truth, it's best to let go......now, of course I never can...you sound like you're in the right state of mind. Concentrate on a wonderful future!! Link to comment
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