Ladies(men answer too) What do you do to show a guy you're attracted to him?

[Shinobie]

When you are attracted to a guy what signals do you give. I've heard that women will look over and smile and keep up eye contact but it seems different with some women. Some girls will look over at me, than look down, and than glance up at me. Some will keep looking over at me but not really smile but just keep up eye contact or look over when I'm not looking. So, what do you usually do such as if you're shy or whichever way you feel when you're attracted to a guy?

[Capricorn3]

I've heard that women will look over and smile and keep up eye contact but it seems different with some women. Some girls will look over at me, than look down, and than glance up at me.

A mixture of the two - look over, smile, keep eye contact for a couple of seconds, look away, ......... rinse and repeat, lol.

[emptychipbag]

I'm pretty clueless with this stuff too. To me it seems everybody makes eye contact and smiles at everybody. I can't tell the difference between politeness and attraction.

[John Bendix]

You are not going to get a direct answer to this question from the ladies.

 

They had to take a vow of silence when they learned all of their tactics to dealing with men at those supposed "sleep-overs" when they were 12 and 13. They were really training classes where the "sisterhood" taught them all the right moves to obtain what they wanted. I think Rule #1 was, "Keep'em Guessing."

 

Just Kidding.........

[Dancergirl425]

A mixture of the two - look over, smile, keep eye contact for a couple of seconds, look away, ......... rinse and repeat, lol.

 

I agree. If they are part of my group that I'm out with I'll find a reason to touch him. Like go to whisper something in his ear and touch his arm or play "hit". If he's accross the room though I just smile and make eye contact without being creepy. Usually If he doesn't retaliate after the first/second time I stop.

[Mia_of_Doom]

I get insanely shy, so I tend to admire from afar. If I feel bold or like I have a chance, then I'll make excuses to talk to him and (especially bold) invite him out somewhere.

[pinkelephant]

if i really like a guy (so i know him and interact with him on a regular basis), i'll do something about it although i'm so so shy. but if it's just a guy i met, i probably will look over/look away if i'm feeling bold. but chances are i'll just get really weird and stammer around him. lol

[dancingfeet]

If i find a guy attractive, i will smile, make eye contact, then look away. When i am looking back at him again, its really to find out if he finds me attractive too. If he is still making eye contact, i will smile again to show i am interested : )

[Cognitive_Canine]

I'll smile at them a lot. Try and set up situations where we will be together. Make eye contact. etc.

[Miss Chrissy]

usually i'll keep eye contact. make sure to turn my body to be facing him as well. i'm more of a shy smiler, if smiler is a word. haha. like when they notice me looking at them i'll smile shyly and look down or away. kind of the cute way of it i guess.

[G3LesPaul]

I hope its just not the smile because I have had only one girl smile at me before and that can't be right that only one girl found me attractive lol

 

I can't decipher between a look of attraction or just a look of scanning the surroundings. Anyway to tell the difference?