oceanview Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 What do you think when someone winks at you? I don't know if this girl did it to say hello, or if she was flirting. She was walking past. I said hi and started staring. Staring back, she started smiling, winked and kept walking. She was still staring when I looked away. If she were a guy, I'd take that as a sign of interest; she's not a guy so I'm not sure. Link to comment
onewithbooks Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 She liked what she saw, she is interested. Link to comment
1WayTicket2Norway Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Winks can mean a lot of different things, but the fact that she stared could possibly indicate that she was interested... or maybe it was just a sign of recognition... Link to comment
EmptySoul Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I would say she is probably interested? But yes, it's true, a guy we all assume is straight and hitting on us, a chick, we're like, is she straight? is she being friendly? or does she like me? chick/chick relationships are harder to figure out i think... e. Link to comment
Ifeelinvisable Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 She's into you, and if I were you my first reaction would be to flirt back, if of course you're a lesbian but, if your not then I would staight up tell her that your not intrested. Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Hahaha this has happened to me too! I didn't know what to do, so I just winked back lol it was a stranger though, and I never saw her again. Link to comment
oceanview Posted July 1, 2009 Author Share Posted July 1, 2009 She's into you, and if I were you my first reaction would be to flirt back, if of course you're a lesbian but, if your not then I would staight up tell her that your not intrested. Well, I'm extremely attracted to her I know that much. I don't really interact with her much, but when the opportunity presents itself I'm going to see where a little flirting gets me. I would say she is probably interested? But yes, it's true, a guy we all assume is straight and hitting on us, a chick, we're like, is she straight? is she being friendly? or does she like me? chick/chick relationships are harder to figure out i think... e. I can't agree with you more. I've gotten these vibes from her in the past, but I always brushed them off. IDK, lately they've been hard to ignore. Everyone, thank you for the comments. I'm going to proceed, but with a little caution. Link to comment
unabashed Posted July 3, 2009 Share Posted July 3, 2009 I would take the winking as an indication that she knows you're gay, and now "you know that she knows." It may or may not be flirting, but with that wink, the door is open for you to make a move toward getting to know her better, no matter where it leads. Sounds like fun! Link to comment
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