Babetears Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 What does a guy mean when he say "I think you are better off with another guy, you may be happier with him, and he may have more time for you?... i know all guys are different but i want some opinion from you guys and girls.... thanx... Link to comment
SpoiledVixen Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 well im not trying to be mean, but it doesnt seem that good... if he is ur bf, seems like hes easing u into a break up or something like that, just confront him about it. if he says that, ask him what he means by it... simple Link to comment
Babetears Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 he already told me that... as a break up... so i want to know what he really mean when he said that... i don't want to call him and ask him because i am on a no-contact with him rite now... Link to comment
crapie Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 My ex bf said to me exactly the same as your boy said to you. I broke up 2 months after he said that to me. Link to comment
crapie Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 My ex bf said exactly the same for me. I broke up with him 2 months after he said that to me. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 With the 'may be able to spend more time with you" thing, well, if you hounded him about not seeing each other enough, thats where that comment came from. If it was said in anger, definitely. "you may be happier with him"... If you were unhappy with your ex, fought alot, or put him down...thats where that one came from. "Better off with another guy"...He's either depressed, got low self esteem, insecure about being with you, or, to put it bluntly, he's just plain lost interest (sorry, but that could be it). He could just be insecure with your relationship...(do you have alot of male friends??) Just a thought.. Link to comment
Babetears Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 i did hound him about not spending times with me... he is always with his friends... we hardly spend any time alone.. like going to the movies alone.. etc. i guess he's probably lost interest with me then... cause i don't think he is depressed or have low-self esteem... well we didn't fight a lot... he thinks i get mad at him a lot... and the reason why i get mad at him a lot because he doesn't give me any attention.... the only attentions i get from him is when his friends are gone that is when he will give me all the attention... yea ofcourse when that happens i am usually asleep by then... that's all the friends i got they are mostly male... but i don't think he is insecure ... at the beginning he did say he doesn't mind if i go out with my male friends ... but i don't know how he thinks now... well i think i did threaten to leave him before if he is to go out with girls... i don't remember... Link to comment
Babetears Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 Crapie, so did you stay in contact with your ex?? or did he contact you??? Link to comment
Babetears Posted April 3, 2004 Author Share Posted April 3, 2004 can someone give me more advice on this please... anyone??? Link to comment
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