KevinKevin20 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Hey guys. My FwB has a tongue ring and she knows very well that I hate nipple piercings. Well today she went out and got one ... after we talked for about 10 minutes when she was getting it on impulse. She didnt know what she really wanted and I told her to chill out and relax thre is no rush. But behind my back she did it and called me. I feel devastated and I don't really have feelings for her anymore. She knows I hate nipple piercings and I just dont want to see it. What do I do??? Link to comment
dragon lady Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 If she's your FwB, why do you care? Are you guys just having sex or is it more the case where you're into her, but she's not into you? Either way, if you're not in a relationship, then you don't really have a say in what she does. Link to comment
hers Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 If she's your FwB, why do you care? Are you guys just having sex or is it more the case where you're into her, but she's not into you? Either way, if you're not in a relationship, then you don't really have a say in what she does. Pretty much exactly what I was gonna say... Link to comment
vertigoxo Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 This whole "friends with benefits" business is disgusting. Sorry. She's not your girlfriend, so you have no say in what she does or say. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 I agree with the other posters...she is not your girlfriend so she doesn't have to consider your feelings on the matter. The only thing you can do is tell her that when you have your sex dates you would rather that she not wear the nipple ring. She can then choose whether or not she wants to comply and whether or not she wants to continue the FWB. Likewise, you have the choice of whether or not to continue the FWB. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 If you can't deal with it, find someone else to sleep with. Sorry to be harsh, but why she should she care if you hate it? Link to comment
blackgnat Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 What claim do YOU have on her body and what she does with it? Maybe she's declaring her independence from you! Are you upset because you won't be getting any more FWB lovin'? Link to comment
Hope75 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Even if she was your GF she doesn't need your permission to get a piercing. I don't see how it is any of your business to be honest. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 It's her nipple; you don't need to do anything with it. Link to comment
Rabican Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 She doesnt really owe you any explaination, and you have no right to decide what she does. You can voice your opinion as in, I dont like them, and I wouldnt sleep with a girl who had one... but as you arent in a relationship thats really as far as your dissent goes. Link to comment
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