doyouloveme Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 a girl i have been dating for about three weeks won't kiss me (meaning i tried and she moved away). i thought things were going really well, and i even felt i was taking it extremely slow since we have been on many dates already. we're both 19 so it's not like we're too young for it or anything. is this a red flag? i mean i really like her, but if she's not into me and isn't sexually attracted to me, i should find out soon before i start liking her even more right? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 i would ask about it. depending on her response, i'd move on. Link to comment
doyouloveme Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 i would ask about it. depending on her response, i'd move on. so what would a good response be and what would a bad response be? Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 good: "I was afraid I had bad breath." "I was still getting over a cold and didn't wanna make you sick." "I was nervous because you're so sexy." bad: "I don't find you attractive" "I'm saving french kissing for my wedding kiss" Link to comment
Davie Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I was nervous because you're so sexy." I hear that all too often... (lol i wish) Link to comment
doyouloveme Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 what about i took it really slow with my last boyfriend, so i don't want to rush things? Link to comment
Davie Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Hmmm. Is this in public or private. Some people don't like hanky panky in public Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I hear that all too often... (lol i wish) i get it all the time. kinda cliche now. Link to comment
doyouloveme Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 it was outside, but at like 2am so no one was around. i would consider that relatively private. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 what about i took it really slow with my last boyfriend, so i don't want to rush things? meh, how about I'd rather take things slow? Who cares about what she did with her last boyfriend, that shouldn't come up. Link to comment
Davie Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I agree with the furious scorpion above. Link to comment
doyouloveme Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 so how should i interpret that? not interested? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 i actually would be put off if after 2 dates i got no kiss. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 so how should i interpret that? not interested? yes, but you have to talk to HER first...not us. we won't be able to come to a conclusion for you. Link to comment
velvette Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I dated my bf for two months before a light kiss (no tongues), and 5 months before the french kiss. maybe she's never kissed before? that was my reason, and I was nervous. but yeah, ask her. Link to comment
KittyKat99 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 what about i took it really slow with my last boyfriend, so i don't want to rush things? yeah, this seems likely. a lot of girls really value relationships and don't want to jump right in with every guy she dates. if this is the case, you should appreciate it, because when you get to the point of kissing, it will mean even more. Link to comment
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