What do you do after the 1st date?

[VtecQueen]

I went on a date with a guy last night. I feel that things went really well. Since Monday we've talked/text on the phone all day everyday and realized we are a lot alike mentally. We really connected within that week of talking. We finally met up last night and I had a good time.

 

I don't know how he feels of course, he's pretty hard to read lol. After the date we hugged and parted, nothing else. I'd think if a guy was interested he'd want to spend more time, but I'm not worried about that cuz he probably had something else to do, no biggie. But anyway....

 

I don't want to come off desperate or "needy" by texting/calling him now! I haven't said anything today I was kinda wanted to wait for him to make the first move of contact today. I know it's a woman's job to make things more difficult than they really are lol, so if there's any guys out there that could give me a guys view on what the next step should be, I'd greatly appreciate it!!! Thanks!!!

[annie24]

has he asked you out again?

[VtecQueen]

No not yet, the date was last night.

[annie24]

i usually just wait for the guy to contact me after a date. i think if you showed interest on the date, and they liked you, they'll contact you.

[VtecQueen]

yeah, that's the same thing I was thinking.