princess5 Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Hi guys, Just wondering if it's wise to go totally no contact if you think theres a chance that your ex still really loves you? My ex has emailed me since I told him i cant be friends with him anymore and I have managed to ignore. I always felt that our break up was never completely final, i feel that he just needs to go out and do his thing for a while.(he just turned 22) He broke up with me 5 months ago. Hoping for some wise advice, Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 his reason for breaking up was that he would always regret it if he didnt see more of life when he was still really young and had the chance. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I'd put some distance between the two of you but stay "cordial". A Merry Christmas and a Happy B'day and all that. This is the time for you to heal, so do whatever it takes to make that happen. All will be revealed in time. Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 Just afraid that if I ignore me he will think that I have completely forgotten about him and I dont want him to think that. Would you advise to ignore his every attempt to contact me? Link to comment
NJRon Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Why would you not want him to experience the consequences of his decision? That's part of growing up. Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 Does anyone actually think its possible for two people to get back together after being apart for 5 months? Does it happen in real life? Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Does anyone actually think its possible for two people to get back together after being apart for 5 months? Does it happen in real life? Some people are apart for years and get back together. I wouldn't count on it though. Time will tell, but in the meantime I would prepare for a future without him Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 Im so thankful I found this website, i really cant tell you all how helpful it has been to me in getting my life back on track, I was on a slippery slope to depression before I found enotlone. It's great to see that Im not alone and that I can share my experiences with others. I know I am going to be okay now. Link to comment
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