jpmartin Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 we met once before for coffee and I really like him, I believe he likes me too. he'll drive 40min to see me again next Tue. and take me out for dinner. can I give him a cheek kiss when he leave? ps. we just had a short hug( I initiated), a little bit flirting, no touching at all. I don't want to mass it up. thanks. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 You can do whatever you want. Don't fret over it. I kissed my boyfriend on the first date. Some people go much farther. It's whatever you feel comfortable with. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 i don't see anything wrong with that, at all. sounds sweet. =) Link to comment
Massari Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 kiss on the cheek? that's usually very friendly and i do it on the first date. but yeah as other mentioned you can do it as you wish. Have fun on the date. Link to comment
agatha Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 just go with the flow, and do what you feel like ^^ being comfortable with what you're doing is the best way of making it naturally acceptable. Link to comment
jpmartin Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 i see. I'm from another culture, so just want to make sure. thanks. Link to comment
Nixee Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 What culture is the guy you are seeing from? Chances are, a guy who is interested in you and wanting to see you for a second date will appreciate any sort of physical contact, especially a kiss. Do whatever feels right and comfortable for you. Link to comment
jpmartin Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 I'm from Asian, and he's from the States. he's lived in Japan for a year not long ago. he didn't give me any type of touch on our first coffee date, not even a hug. so I'd a hard time deciding whether he's attracted to me or not since now he seems interested , I'm wondering why he didn't even hug me. from his perception of my culture or he doesn't like it... but I guess i'm over thinking. Link to comment
villie Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 Yep. i dont see anything wrong with it!!! make sure he is aware you are going in for a kiss on the cheek!! i did that recently and it didn't go well. As i greeted him i went to kiss him on the cheek. he thought i was going in to kiss him (we had not kissed before) and it went awkward. then he kept talkign about and apologising. that made it even more awkward. Link to comment
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