Confused by her mixed signals. Need a girls point of view

[TC142]

I just need to get a girls point of view about this girl I have been talking to on and off for the last couple of months. Let me give you a little background so you have a little something to go by. We use to work together and talked all the time. Then we started to hang out during the summer almost every weekend just going out and going to concerts. Well she got and we don not work together anymore. But we still kept in touch with each other and still went out with each other after we stopped working together.

 

Well after going out one night I decided to ask her what she thought about us being more then friends she said for right now it would not be a good idea because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. I said that was fine and we kept it at that for the time being. Well after that I decided that I would not try to pursue anything with her after that. Last week unexpectically my phone rings and it is her asking me to go out for a little while and hang out. I decide why not and go out with her. We hung out a little bit but then we split up because she saw some of her friends and I saw some of my friends. Then we got back together and went home. The next morning I get a call that she was sorry that we never hung out and that she was sorry for that. Which I really don't understand at all because I was not mad at all. But anyway now that you have a little background of my situation here is my question for any of you girls our there that can answer this. Should I still try to ask her what she is feeling now and try to she if she wants to be more then friends? She always asks me about how everything is going on in my life and I ask her the same. Or should I just move on and not try anything?

[ItsyBitsyMel]

Just keep spending time with her, try to go for alone time though. Call her, and she will call you as she has done before. Try not to ask her any serious questions about her feelings towards you because maybe she's just taking things extra slow to make sure it works out and you don't wanna freak her out by being too clingy.