TC142

Here is my situation. I have been talking to this girl. We had previously worked together last year. We hang out every so often. I really can not figure her out though. Last year I had told her I wanted to be more then friends but she had just broken up with her boyfriend and said she was not ready. Which I was fine with about a year ago. Well I figured we would not talk anymore after that I would move on. But we still hang out and still am not sure what is going on with either of us. i had asked her what the deal is with both of us a couple of months ago and she just avoids the question. But she will still call me and hang out. My question to any of the women out there is what should I do? Should I just come out again and find out what the deal is between both of us or just ignore her? She does show the signs that she is intrested though. Always cracking jokes, flirting, wanting to know what is going on with my life. But she still plays this always busy person. I am busy as well but I really can not figure her out. Any advice would help.

I just need to get a girls point of view about this girl I have been talking to on and off for the last couple of months. Let me give you a little background so you have a little something to go by. We use to work together and talked all the time. Then we started to hang out during the summer almost every weekend just going out and going to concerts. Well she got and we don not work together anymore. But we still kept in touch with each other and still went out with each other after we stopped working together. Well after going out one night I decided to ask her what she thought about us being more then friends she said for right now it would not be a good idea because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. I said that was fine and we kept it at that for the time being. Well after that I decided that I would not try to pursue anything with her after that. Last week unexpectically my phone rings and it is her asking me to go out for a little while and hang out. I decide why not and go out with her. We hung out a little bit but then we split up because she saw some of her friends and I saw some of my friends. Then we got back together and went home. The next morning I get a call that she was sorry that we never hung out and that she was sorry for that. Which I really don't understand at all because I was not mad at all. But anyway now that you have a little background of my situation here is my question for any of you girls our there that can answer this. Should I still try to ask her what she is feeling now and try to she if she wants to be more then friends? She always asks me about how everything is going on in my life and I ask her the same. Or should I just move on and not try anything?