chocolate-cake Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Bascially there is a crew of girls at bfs church and they always taking pictures and the latest ones on facebook he is up fairly close tosome of them anfd they keep commenting saying he looks cute/good etc etc. its starting to p-ss me offespecially as one of them they used to talk back in the days and flirt etc, i know it sounds petty but starting to feel stressed, do u think he is leading them on for them to make the comments or they will just do it regardless. i wouldnt write comments like tht on a guys pic if he was in a rel out of respect but i guess other girls r diff. it says we r in a rel on facebook??? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 As long as he's not in meeting them in real life, nothing to worry about. I wouldn't get that touchy on that one. Link to comment
chocolate-cake Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 he does see them but never one onone Link to comment
yeawutever Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 he does see them but never one onone Then I would first assume he just wants to meet them as a friend, but you can go with your instinct. Has be been treating you different, being distant or doesn't iniciate intimacy that much like before as well as vice-versa? Link to comment
chocolate-cake Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 no, theresno sign of cheating and i dont feel he is cheating physically on me,he never lies or ive never found out that he went 2 their house without telling me but i feel betrayed when i see the commentsif this makes sense, he just lets them roll in where as if a male friend of mine was making comments i would have a quiet word with him or atleast write something smart back Link to comment
yeawutever Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Then you don't nothing to worry about, you got a nice man right there. Just tell him how you feel about it and why it bothers you. Remember that communication is important in any type of relationship. Just try not to get overly jeaous as he might find it a turn-off and think that you're insecure or don't trust him. Link to comment
chocolate-cake Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 thanks for that advie but it hard not to get annoyed Link to comment
amipushy Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 If you haven't got trust, you haven't got nothing. You have to trust him and try to feel flattered that they want what you got. Link to comment
chocolate-cake Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 i just tried to tlk to him about it and he said he dont wanna hear it basically n tht we r together so dont stress about it but i dont feel right about it Link to comment
amipushy Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Isn't that your own insecurity shining through though? Have faith in yourself and how sexy and sweet you are and start thinking "why would he want anyone else when he has me?" He just told you, he doesn't! Didn't he? You should be the one teasing him about having 'groupies' throwing themselves at him and if you can't do that then stop looking. Link to comment
_Matt_ Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 To me it sounds like it's the girls doing it and not him leading them on. He has you listed as his girlfriend on there. I can understand why you're stressed it's not something you want to read/see as his partner but if it's just girls making comments on his profile I wouldn't worry as overthinking it could put strain on your relationship. Because these girls are making comments like that, even if it's stroking his ego, it doesn't mean he's interested in the slightest and will act on it. Link to comment
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