moving in with the bf

[purisvir]

I have been going out with my BF for close to four months now. I am getting an apartment for school and we would like to move into together, but is it too soon? I am so afraid that it is too soon and it will ruin our relationship. what do you all think.:sad:

[redhearts]

I wish I could pm you to tell you something funny, LOL. But if you feel its rushing, then don't do it. There is no need to rush anything in a relationship.

[hers]

I moved in with a guy at 4 months one time. 6 months later I was so tired of him but stayed b/c I couldn't afford rent alone. Finally at 2 years we broke up and he moved out.

 

Don't rush it. You're still in the honeymoon stage. Give the relationship time to build.

[JadedStar]

Have you lived alone first? or with other roommates? It sounds like you might be leaving the parental home for the first time and getting your own place?

 

If that is the case I really encourage you not to move right in with b/f. Get antoher roommate. LIve a bit for awhile. there is plenty of time later to play house. For now enjoy being young. People who move straight from home to living with a b/f often wonder what it would be like to exercise more independence.

 

There is no rush and if the relationship is only four months old moving in could really make things worse vs better.

[elazul]

If you're worried at all that it might be too soon, don't do it! Sign a lease with him and you're stuck there for a year. Don't do it unless you're really sure.