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Abusive girlfriend? Or are we both to blame?


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We are all capable of losing our tempers. I have done it and I spoke to a professional about it. It helps to know that it's normal to feel that much anger that strongly. If you haven't lost control before then you must know how to avoid losing it. Still, if the dynamic is there with your girlfriend, then the counselor needs to see you both to help you fix it.

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Beating yourself up about it isn't going to help, so it's okay to accept that it did happen and forgive yourself.

 

After you've forgiven yourself, forgive her because she obviously didn't know what she was doing.

 

Then you can start living in the solution which is changing the dynamic in your relationship that caused such a volitile series of events.

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