Email fron the ex, plz offer insight, does she still care???

[kantore]

My ex wrote me what do you think of her email. I need the female perspective. I was really moved by her words.

 

Evan,

 

I am glad to hear that you are doing so well, I was a little worried about

you for a minute. I can't believe that you guys already sold the business,

that's great! So what will you be doing and where will you be working now?

That is after you go and play iin South America. That will be such an

amazing experience, how long are you going for and who are you going with?

You will have to tell me all about it, I am so jealous- as I will be

starting yet another hellish term at school.

 

I am really sorry to hear that your Mom may move to Florida, that must be

hard considering you two are so close. At least she will be moving to be

with the rest of her family, I am sure she finds comfort in having them

close by. Have you and your Dad made amends now? You haven't said much

about it since last spring.

 

So you and Justin are getting a place, what happened to Kate? Did they

break up or are they just not living together anymore? It's probably old

news, but I haven't talked to you much. Seems a lot of people are breaking

up lately, Cecily and my brother broke up about a month ago and she moved

out of their house.

 

What are you doing for New Years? Any big plans? I don't know if I even

want to go out, my girls are all going to be with their boyfriends or have

moved out of state- and I am not so sure that I want to spend it with the

guy I am currently dating- I am just not into the whole bar scene anymore.

I don't know if I want to spend $100 to go out and have a mediocre time. I

may just stay in with the cats and dogs, or I might go out with my brother

to some house parties he is dj-ing.

 

I know it's off the subject, but it seems that this past year that you have

grown up a whole lot and come into your own. You are and have been the

single most ambitious person I know, and what I really admire is that you

don't just talk big, but you make things happen. It's funny, but that is

the characteristic that I look for most in people that I have relationships

with. But out of everyone, you have been my biggest motivator. Even though

we stopped talking for a while, your words have stuck with me and made me

push myself to do my best. I don't know why or how you did it, but you

influenced me when no one else could. I guess I am just trying to say thank

you for being such an amazing person. I truly feel blessed to have someone

like you be a part of my life. I am so proud of all that you have

accomplished and I know there is much more to come. I hope that this next

year will out-do the last, and that you have a wonderful holiday season.

 

Say hello to everyone for me - and tell Jeremy that I love him

Hopefully next year we will be able to find the time to see one another and

catch up.

 

Love always,

Lindsy

[benchwarmer]

I'm a guy; but I think it's more important to tell us what you think of it. Unless getting a bunch of forum women, to tell you that she still likes you, gives you the confidence to respond to her. And if she really meant something to you then what would a few forum opinions matter?

 

That's my 2 cents.

[VickiRose]

This is just from my perspective of the email... But, it looks like she is just being nice, and talking on a friendship basis... Basically, talking about how she appreciated the time that she had with you, and perhaps may be writting you, out of regret...

[DealingWithIt]

Its definitely not an email indicating that she wants you back. Its just a friendly email asking how you were and stuff and basically catching up.

[Michael2]

Well here is a male perspective.

 

You have to ask yourself ONE question. Do you want to be friends with her. IF so, then go for it. But in all honesty, especially if you still have feelings for her, it would be best if you dont talk to her till you heal.

 

Especially if she is seeing someone else. WHat is the deal. Do you want to be her back up plan, or her shoulder to cry on when things go bad with this new guy. I dont think you do.

 

No contact. Period!

Yes she does care. Do it reach the extent where she wants to get back.. that I dont know.

[ilinara]

To me it sounds as she wants you to be one of her good friends. Not just being nice and not more than being friends, right now...

[Emotional]

well i think the email is saying that she misses u and she cant find neone else like u. it seems like she hasnt been getting alont with her curent partner . i Dont really think she is trying to get back with u i just think that she respects u and u mean tons and bunches to her

[sidehop]

She sounds like a good friend...maybe if you don't talk to her for awhile she might just come back. This email does sound like a good friend type of email.