It feels like it was all a dream...

[Band_Nerd]

You ever wake up from a dream, and it starts to fade away as soon as you wake up, and you start to wonder if it really happened at all, or if it was just a dream?

I've been feeling like that lately. That my past memories of my ex, that whole 1 year and a half, seemed like a dream. It's gotten to the point where it doesn't feel like any of that has ever happened; that it only happened in a fleeting dream. Is that normal, or am I healing? Or neither? It's been very confusing lately, that recently he's seems to be nothing but a fleeting dream.

 

Anyone else have this happen to them?

[leo_s84]

I'm feeling the same exactly... i think it's the way our brain deals with it, i feel better so i think we're healing

[babes23]

Yep i think it's a part of the healing process. I'm looking forward to reaching that stage.

[Band_Nerd]

I hope you guys are right. I mean, I guess it's a good thing, but I don't want to forget about him completely.

[HereIGoAgain]

Sounds like you're healing to me and letting go so don't worry about it. Dreams are the mind's way of working things out and is to be expected given the upset of the breakup. Try not to dwell too much on the meaning, just let it happen.

[wardog1]

I kind of have those moments...I actually could not sleep at all last night just thinking of her.

 

I feel Guilty and afraid to lose memories.....that is probably not normal. But there are moments when I am working and keeeping busy and not thinking of her, then When I do, I feel like I should have been the whole time?

 

Is that normal?

[Band_Nerd]

I kind of have those moments...I actually could not sleep at all last night just thinking of her.

 

I feel Guilty and afraid to lose memories.....that is probably not normal. But there are moments when I am working and keeeping busy and not thinking of her, then When I do, I feel like I should have been the whole time?

 

Is that normal?

 

I'm sorry, I can't tell you.