madmarten Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I was just thinking about this. People often say have your friends introduce you to someone. But I have never had any of my friends set me up on a date ever. Of course they new I was single and looking...humm Btw I have set my friends upon at least several occasions. Link to comment
amure Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 i think its the best way to meet someone compared to online/blind ect... the best girl ive ever met was through my mates Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I'm sure my friend would only take her for himself. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I was just thinking about this. People often say have your friends introduce you to someone. But I have never had any of my friends set me up on a date ever. Of course they new I was single and looking...humm Btw I have set my friends upon at least several occasions. have you asked them if they know any singles? don't just wait around for it to happen. Link to comment
Mutley Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I met my (now ex) wife through friends. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 It's a good way to meet new people with the stress of a one on one date. Link to comment
madmarten Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 have you asked them if they know any singles? don't just wait around for it to happen. Of course I asked them if they knew anybody. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Of course I asked them if they knew anybody. and you said nothing after? i'd be like 'hook me up!' Link to comment
AuthenticAuthor Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 At first, I'm inclined to say that I would NEVER have friends set me up on a date. But since I am bored, I would consider it. The only problem is the conflict-of-interest that may come from such an arrangement; I don't want anyone expecting anything out of the date except that it will be a "date". Yet nevertheless people often do put more expectations on it, especially if they have a vested interest in seeing the date a "success". Yes, I guess the only time when I would have a friend arrange a date for me is when I'm bored and when that friend has earned my trust already. Dating can be too sensitive, even though it shouldn't be, and "entangling alliances" between "friends" "dates" can make things worse. Link to comment
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