Question for the Girls - If a guy calls you...

[magicbeans]

Okay, just some general questions for ya gals:

 

You are friends with another guy, you know he likes you. While he never admitted to you, you clearly know through his actions and non-verbal communication. Now how would you react under the following scenarios.

 

Scenario 1:

You don't like him. Only want to be friends. If he calls, would you ever not answer his calls on intention. Or if he calls and you missed it, would you return his calls? How soon or never.

 

 

Scenario 2:

You like him. Same thing.

[littlefeet]

hey magicbeans,

Since the hypothetical guy has been my friend and is not "pushing" the idea of a relationship, I would:

1. not screen his calls, but answer them like any other calls

2. return his calls either right away (if I only just missed it) or as soon as I could get to it (but then that's something I do with all my friends; you never know whether something important has happened)

3. 1 & 2 would be the same whether I had special interest in the guy or not. In fact, if I was very very interested, I might find myself taking more time to return the calls. . . not to play games, but out of being a little shy, or maybe even hesitant that I might spoil the existing friendship by being too obviously interested. (that's usually not true of a real friendship, though)

 

If the guy has been insistent and/or coming on really strongly, I might lose interest whether or not I was originally interested. That's just my personality; I prefer the "take it easy" approach to relationships. So, if that sort of guy called, I might just wait to return his call and have a frank, face-to-face talk about things instead.

 

Hope this helps.

[Sheyda]

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[EmptySoul]

hey. if a guy called that i knew liked me but i didnt like him as more than a friend, i would still talk to him, but if i missed it i would probably just let him call me back. same thing goes if i like him.

EmptySoul