So Weak

[ccali78]

Ok so I am on day zero as I failed miserably after finding out everyone knew he was screwing the copy machine girl...

 

At first I got mad and texted him saying I was humilated and everyone knew and all his friends were so disgusted with him. Than I went to bed. I slept good which was nice for a change.

 

Then I woke up and I needed to know if he was still seeing her as these friends do not see him all the time and they are my friends. (they are mutual friends that we both knew before we dated). I have been friends with them all since high school and I believe the same is true for him.

 

So I texted him about 8 times saying I needed to know the truth I could not take hearing it from someone else. I could not take anymore humiliation. NO response. What is wrong with me..

[ccali78]

Oh by the way she is a rebound and has been seeing her since a couple weeks after we broke up. They are both rebounds. She is going through a divorce has two kids and a restraining order on the ex. Do these relationships last. Could he love her.

[Butterflygrl]

There is nothing wrong with you hun, he is a coward and doesn't want to face you. Don't text him anymore. You know the truth. He gave you the answer by not texting you. If any guy deserves NC it is him. I really feel for you.

[lapseinjudgement]

I agree you deserve better than that. No one deserves to be cheated on. I know what your going through its rough but you gotta realize your better than that so consider him dead to you and move on.

[ccali78]

Ok I need to make this clear. I was not cheated. He started dating her after we broke up. She is going through a divorce. He said he did not want to be alone. Does this sound like a rebound and do they last between 2 weak people.

[Supa_gurl]

Sometimes rebounds last. Sometimes they don't. There is just no way of telling. His feeling for her may not be genuine. I wouldn't waste your time on scum anymore. You have your answer. Good luck.

[metrogirl]

I agree with the others, he gave you the answer by not responding to your texts. You are making yourself crazy trying to get answers and he doesn't care about that.

 

Let him go and good riddance.

[ccali78]

Thanks I know that is the truth.. It just hurts and I need to talk about it and know it is the place. I need to post here or I will text him and I need to stop...

[BeStrongBeHappy]

Silence is your answer there... he most likely is still seeing her, knows you busted him and there is nothing left to say.

 

Your relationship with him has been problematic for a long time, right? This may be what you need... your closure. He is lying to you and sleeping with someone else. The End.

 

There is nothing there for you. Don't keep returning to him to calm your sense of outrage, because he's the one who CAUSED the hurt and outrage. Try to pick up and move on. Use your anger to motivate you to improve your life and find someone new.

[ccali78]

Thanks... I know it will get easier with time. This is not my first time being hurt from a relationship. I am too nice. It just hurts now and you are right silence is the answer. I guess I am just more honest. I would let the person know so they could move on but not everyone is like me.