bicksford Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 I really like this girl, we've hung out a few times over summer now, about 4 or 5 and she likes me as well I believe. I'm just having trouble being the "guy". By that I mean, asking her to do things, initiating everything. It feels like so much responsibility. I get really queasy when I imagine getting nervous when I try to kiss her or something. I just feel like indecisive and nauseous when I think about the future of us, as we progress into dating. I don't know why.. I think it's just me being freaked out by rejection and having to take the lead all the time. I'm not very outgoing at all and I'm generally shy, and it's usually not a problem until it comes to girls. I don't know what I'm hoping to get out of this post... just some kind of reassurance. I'm really nervous about the whole thing. Does it get easier? One other thing. When you get to the point where you think you should be "official" with somebody, how do you bring that up? Do people do the old school "Will you be my girlfriend?" still or is that a childish thing. I'm 20 btw. Going steady, that sort of thing. Link to comment
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