KAT MOMMY Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Just wondering How do you guys feel about these things: -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? Just curious on what others think about these 3 factors Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Just wondering How do you guys feel about these things: -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? I'd say somewhat true. You can definitely tell a lot about a person's class by the way they are after a breakup. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? I'd say it's more likely -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? Yep Just curious on what others think about these 3 factors Here are my answers in bold Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 1. Don't know, haven't experienced it yet. Or if I had it was eons ago and I can't remember. 2. definitely likely 3. I say Yep as well. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? Not always true. Some people can start off faithful and cheat later. There can also be big exciting romances in the beginning that fizzle out to neither caring. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? Odds are very very good that he will cheat again. -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? Yep. To each his own. Link to comment
KAT MOMMY Posted June 24, 2008 Author Share Posted June 24, 2008 -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? Not always true. Some people can start off faithful and cheat later. There can also be big exciting romances in the beginning that fizzle out to neither caring. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? Odds are very very good that he will cheat again. -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? Yep. To each his own. So in the same regards he can be a cheat in the beginning and then become a faithful loyal lover?? Or no? I really don't know about the second on but I know there were people I was with that I cheated on then there were another that I never cheated on-so maybe it depends on that person????? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? Chances are your right. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? I would put money on it but there are some that won't. -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? It was in my case Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 So in the same regards he can be a cheat in the beginning and then become a faithful loyal lover?? Or no? I really don't know about the second on but I know there were people I was with that I cheated on then there were another that I never cheated on-so maybe it depends on that person????? Well, almost all cheaters are in relationships that do have a conflict and that conflict causes them to cheat. So, when a person cheats for long term, it says that instead of working on the conflict in the relationship, they'd rather just be indirect about it. If a person does it once because of a drunken night, there is probably more hope for them. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---?No...people can change. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---?good chance that he will, yes -One man's trash is another mans treasure--??absolutely Link to comment
kyriel Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 "-One man's trash is another mans treasure--??" Is this anything like sloppy seconds? Link to comment
Batya33 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 I think focusing on cliches to this extent hampers personal growth and experiences. I do agree with the third because it's such a broad truism that it's hard to disagree. Link to comment
KAT MOMMY Posted June 25, 2008 Author Share Posted June 25, 2008 I think focusing on cliches to this extent hampers personal growth and experiences. I do agree with the third because it's such a broad truism that it's hard to disagree. I do understand what you are saying in all respects because when you focus on such cliches it makes you edgy and very doubtful. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 -The way a man comes to you is the same way he will leave you---? I don't understand this question fully but: No I don't think so. It depends on the chemistry you have, moments shared, experiences shared and if they hold any meaning to him OR if he was just in it for a good time. When he leaves the relatonship he may/may not take lessons with him. -If he cheated with me then he will cheat on me---? In my opinion and experience, yes. -One man's trash is another mans treasure--?? Most definitely. I'm living proof at the moment anyway. Got dumped and never had any guy who really loved me, yet to my current bf I'm the best. Same goes for guys who have been dumped. You can be the world to one person, yet to another person you don't fulfill their needs and can't hold onto them. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I do understand what you are saying in all respects because when you focus on such cliches it makes you edgy and very doubtful. Well to me it just restricts me from having an open mind and thinking outside the box. Link to comment
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