ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 Read up on anatomy, if you're having sex and you don't know what a clitoris is...god help you sir. I know what it is now that you mention it, its just odd the way she described it, and I did not know girls could have orgasms in those two different ways. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 Thanks for the replies guys, I know most of you must be going "sex at 16? he must be crazy" so your help is greatly appreciated. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 Thanks for the replies guys, I know most of you must be going "sex at 16? he must be crazy" so your help is greatly appreciated. Not crazy as long as you are careful and use more than 1 form of Birth Control and don't be stupid.. Most of us have had sex before the "appropriate" age (Who has the say in what age is right anyway.) Just be sure you educate yourself before jumping into it. I ended up pregnant at 16 because noone talked to me about sex and I didn't educate myself enough. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 I've already attended a seminar on safe sex (they gave me four free condoms, though my girlfriend is assuring me I'm going to need a lot more Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 I believe you said your gf was on birth control as well , right? If she is and if she's on the pill be sure she takes it at the SAME TIME every day and doesn't miss one single pill. Also, most planned parenthood clinics and/or Health Departments offer free Condoms, you just go in and they'll give you plenty. I did it once just out of curiosity and they gave me a grocery bag full of condoms. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 they must have assessed your physical attractiveness and given you as many as they thought you'd need. So I should feel insulted if they give me... like... 6. LMAO She isn't on Birth Control RIGHT now, we're not going to have sex until the summer... I'll remind her about a week before the summer to be sure she does. Unless... how long do they have to take the pill for beforehand to play it safe? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 LOL! I'd suggest she start on birth control as soon as possible, alot of doctors say it's safest to go through an entire cycle before having unprotected sex (even though most pills are usually effective after the first 7 days) but you want to be safest, right? and also if she starts taking them as soon as possible, if she has a reaction to one pill she can try out a few different options without any worries instead of waiting right before you guys have sex. It will also give her time to get into routine of taking her pill everyday, I'm still bad some days about forgetting but not as bad as when I first started taking them I would forget them so bad! Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 Alright, thanks yeah, her aunt gave her birth control for her birthday (wth? "happy birthday, you little skank!") but she hasnt started using it yet... Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 Her aunt gave her birth control? She needs to see a doctor in order to be put on birth control! Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 I know, I assumed her doctor had some part in it... btw... if it turns out she has to go to a doctor anyways, due to whatever complications arising (maybe her doctor didnt legitimize it, idk) can she do so without her parents' knowledge? they do not, strictly speaking, know about me Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 She can go to a planned parenthood clinic without her parents I believe, otherwise she will need her parents if she goes to her regular Doctor/OB. But maybe is a good time her parents learn about you and that she's thinking about having sex? Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted May 7, 2008 Author Share Posted May 7, 2008 haha well I've met them... they know me as a friend of hers. Anyways, I've met them, and they're not exactly the most understanding people when it comes to their daughter Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted May 7, 2008 Share Posted May 7, 2008 I'm 16 too, so I get where you're coming from. but EDUCATE YOURSELF. like really. Before you even go there it's best to have no confusion or equivocation around anatomy, birth control methods, everything. link removed - good site. taught me some valuable stuff. Link to comment
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