lila... Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I don't like lists because I always meet someone who doesn't fit the list, and I still like them! So the only thing I want is to be attracted to them, chemistry, respect, and someone who makes my heart skip when I think of him Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Man, this is one hard thing to write about. Perfect? Hmmmm. So difficult. My PERFECT bf would be a gorgeous and wealthy demigod who travels by dragon. Wow, I just scared myself with how geeky I am. Link to comment
Comatose Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Wolf, I have no dragon but I've got one beauty of a kiger stallion. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Wolf, I have no dragon but I've got one beauty of a kiger stallion. Sorry to inform. But I am already taken. He travels by Lumina, one notch below dragon. Link to comment
PJPaul Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I don't like lists because I always meet someone who doesn't fit the list, and I still like them! So the only thing I want is to be attracted to them, chemistry, respect, and someone who makes my heart skip when I think of him Tru but i have a little list. I try no to make it too long cuz i never know who my soul mate may be but here is mine in a gurl followed by my reasons -Non smoker (i don't smoke, it stinks, i don't like it, yellow teeth are a turn off, i just don't find smokers attractive) -In college or has a good carrier (McDonald's doesn't count, I need my partner to contribute to the family, doesn't need to make boatloads but she's not free loading off of me) -Stable, healthy relationship with her family (crazy people come from crazy families) -Doesn't have a horrible attitude (a little attitude is fine, but i dont find neck bobbling chics attractive at all) -Has to have a good self esteem -Happy personally Link to comment
JenniferSNJ Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 PJPaul- I think you touched on a lot of good things- self esteem, non smoker, happy, etc. You're much smarter than the average 20 year old men I meet! Link to comment
Comatose Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Sorry to inform. But I am already taken. He travels by Lumina, one notch below dragon. Aw that sucks, haha. Link to comment
PJPaul Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 PJPaul- I think you touched on a lot of good things- self esteem, non smoker, happy, etc. You're much smarter than the average 20 year old men I meet! Thanks! Link to comment
Lusif Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Independent. Is sometimes very affectionate and available, then at other times very aloof. It keeps me interested! Adventurous and open-minded. Good personal hygeine, style and at least average-looking. Intelligent - grammar Nazis are a bonus, too! And of course, he must be attentive and have a fantastic sense of humour. Link to comment
givinggirl Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Independent, but not someone who is never with me. Enjoys his own hobbies. Not Possessive, controlling, obsessive over me. Intelligent, needs to be able to spell. Responsible. Takes care of himself, his bills, his money, etc. I will not be his bank. Funny, great sense of humor and can make me laugh even when I want to scream or cry. In tune with who I am, how I would feel, someone who pays enough attention to me to know my quirks, my beliefs, etc. Looks at me with tenderness and love in his eyes. Would never disrespect me, cheat on me, lie to me. I need honesty. Loves dogs. Wants to get married and have kids. Has interests of his own, with friends to hang out with. Trustworthy. Family oriented. Kind, caring, nice, ethical, morals, etc. Understands that I am independent and have my own interests as well. Trusts me. No drugs or smoking. Drinking in moderation is ok. Does not drive drunk. Is not into having power. Down to earth. Laid back. Puts me towards the top of his list, not the bottom. Has patience and will teach me new things. Will offer me help without me asking. There has to be chemistry between us. I am sure I could think of a bunch more, but this will do. Link to comment
Sarati Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I would begin by eliminating the word "perfect" from the title of Boyfriend. Generally, this would be my list: 1) Content with himself 2) Working on being emotionally aware 3) Satisfied with just ONE woman 4) HONEST (no "life on the side") 5) Gainfully employed 6) Patient, no anger issues 7) Good sense of humor 8 Likes to go out and have fun together, or just stay home 9) Intelligent, well-read, well-educated 10) Kind to animals 11) Tries to be a clear communicator and good listener That's my list right now. I didn't want to make it too long...but I think I really just want a kind, humble, honest person. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Looks like Tyrese.... Money like JayZ lol Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 My perfect partner would be: Someone I could laugh with and feel free to be completely myself. Someone I had complete trust in and who trusted me. Someone with humility and understanding that nothing worth having is easy in life. Most of all though..... Someone who truly loved me for who and what I am without prejudice. Link to comment
cutiepie07 Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Tall - I am pretty tall, so the guy needs to be taller than me Thin but not skinny, in good shape Comfortable with himself, not afraid of being a dork Independent, likes to do his own thing, has his own life outside of me Passionate Someone who has goals, doesn't matter what they are A good conversationalist, witty, sarcasm is key Loyal and honest, someone I know I can trust, someone who trusts me Kind and considerate Responsible, but at the same time knows how to have fun Can teach me things and is willing to learn things from me Plays the guitar - Doesn't have to, but it's a bonus Ski/snowboard - I do this in the winter, so it would be nice to have someone who enjoys it too Link to comment
Firiel Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 -Funny -Likes me FOR my eccentricities rather than DESPITE them -Intelligent -All of the kind, honest, caring, loyal stuff -Not pretentious... as an English major, I know enough pretentious men, thank you very much -Keeps me responsible for my actions by calling me out if I'm acting inappropriately -Someone with whom I feel comfortable sharing my emotions -Passionate about life -Someone who is my best friend on top of being my boyfriend -Makes me be a better person! Link to comment
jennamajig Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I would begin by eliminating the word "perfect" from the title of Boyfriend. Generally, this would be my list: 1) Content with himself 2) Working on being emotionally aware 3) Satisfied with just ONE woman 4) HONEST (no "life on the side") 5) Gainfully employed 6) Patient, no anger issues 7) Good sense of humor 8 Likes to go out and have fun together, or just stay home 9) Intelligent, well-read, well-educated 10) Kind to animals 11) Tries to be a clear communicator and good listener That's my list right now. I didn't want to make it too long...but I think I really just want a kind, humble, honest person. Sarati, can I take your list and photocopy it? The only thing I'd add would be "close to his family, family orientated" and I'd hope he'd "love animals" but being kind to them works as well. And he won't be perfect and won't expect me to be either. We'd love each love because of our faults, not in spite of them Link to comment
PJPaul Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I would begin by eliminating the word "perfect" from the title of Boyfriend. Generally, this would be my list: 1) Content with himself 2) Working on being emotionally aware 3) Satisfied with just ONE woman 4) HONEST (no "life on the side") 5) Gainfully employed 6) Patient, no anger issues 7) Good sense of humor 8 Likes to go out and have fun together, or just stay home 9) Intelligent, well-read, well-educated 10) Kind to animals 11) Tries to be a clear communicator and good listener That's my list right now. I didn't want to make it too long...but I think I really just want a kind, humble, honest person. Hey thats me!!!! whoa wait im still in college scratch number 5 lol Link to comment
Comatose Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I think someone needs to make a "perfect girlfriend" thread and then be a matchmaker and cross reference. Link to comment
PJPaul Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I think someone needs to make a "perfect girlfriend" thread and then be a matchmaker and cross reference. I already posted mine on here lol Link to comment
Comatose Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Well you're a step ahead of me then. Link to comment
laisla Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 image removed yep yep he's just about perfect Link to comment
Comatose Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Perfect girlfriend ... Believes in true love Is open to all beliefs and cultures Isn't racist Is intelligent without rubbing it in peoples faces Is kind hearted Is a decent cook Doesn't judge others Enjoys nature/animals Has a natural beauty Is ladylike and respectful in public Appreciates romantic gestures Link to comment
PJPaul Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Perfect girlfriend ... Believes in true love Is open to all beliefs and cultures Isn't racist Is intelligent without rubbing it in peoples faces Is kind hearted Is a decent cook Doesn't judge others Enjoys nature/animals Has a natural beauty Is ladylike and respectful in public Appreciates romantic gestures added to my list! Link to comment
In Limbo Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Could play either Piano, violin, guitar, drums, bass, or sing well. Was exciting and adventurous. Transcendentalist. Appreciated a good jazz impromptu. Athletic but not buff, I prefer slender but with nicely shaped arms and shoulders Could joke with me and keep up with my playfulness Knows what he wants and how to get it Deathly loyal to good friends and me Chameleon; (is okay with snuggling at home, associating with the aristocrats, on the streets) He needs to be able to follow me wherever I go and lead me to places that he wanted to share with me. Had a darker side but felt secure enough to talk to me about it. Whoa..that's me there..I just don't associate with aristocrats..may be i will after my MBA at Harvard or Kellogs.. Link to comment
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