did you girls do this when you were virgins?

[Tutankamen]

instead of having sex would just rub the shaft your bf's or who ever's penis on the outside of your vag to get off....did you eventually just give in or what?

[Sugar-Rush]

I had completely forgotton about that. You just made me think about my ex boyfriend!!

We used to dry hump through our underwear, kinda weird now i think about it but back in the day seemed normal, after about 3 months i gave in and we had sex.

That said if she's not ready please don't pressure her, she'll only resent you for it.

 

Sugar xxx

[EQD]

i do that as foreplay. anyway no, when i was a virgin i didnt have outercourse because it was risky if no condom was involved.

remember there is a chance of pregnancy if you arent using one.

[Tethys]

It's called "dry humping" and can happen between people of all levels of experience before sex, not just between or with virgins.

 

Equestriandynamo --AWESOME avatar.

[Mythical_Suicide]

Never did it when I was a virgin I do however do that with my fiance now when we're just messing around or we will fool around with clothes on if we can't actually have full intercourse. So I don't think being a virgin has anything to do with it.

[bmwm3]

maybe when i was 12... but i never had that happen to me... just went for an older girl.. that would do everything and take me into manhood... lol

[ghost69]

that would be a total tease to me. if it didn't progress i'd be hurtin. literally.

[pinkelephant]

yea. we do that sometimes before we have sex as part of foreplay? i actually dont feel much from it but he seemed to have gotten some.

 

 

did you ask a similar question before?:S jw.

[swansong]

I always wished I'd got to do that kind of stuff.

I was 15, never had a boyfriend, got drunk at a friend's party and lost it to a boy I had gone to primary school with. (He was gorgeous though)

Pretty bad huh? It was a month after I lost my virginity I got my first kiss.

 

Don't drink kids.

[midnightrambler]

I always wished I'd got to do that kind of stuff.

I was 15, never had a boyfriend, got drunk at a friend's party and lost it to a boy I had gone to primary school with. (He was gorgeous though)

Pretty bad huh? It was a month after I lost my virginity I got my first kiss.

 

Don't drink kids.

 

post of the evening--good advice

[RememberLeah]

Uh, wow Swansong...........

[Brokenhearted87]

Yeah, with my ex (who is the only guy I've been with and lost my virginity to), we didn't have sex till a good few months in. He had had sex plenty before! We fooled around a lot, did anything but kind of thing, I wasn't experienced with anything sexual really, when I hit on that, I really liked it! So did he, but after a couple of months he refused to let me do it anymore because it was too frustrating for him (doing the action but not being able to ahem slide in).

[srssatellite]

My wife and I did this before we ever had sex. Did it for about a year before we started having sex. I enjoyed it then and still enjoy it now.

[m12988]

If she's gonna do stuff like that, you'd may as well have sex. I mean really, what is the point of torturing yourself like that? I never did that, if i wanted to have sex i was gonna have it.