Kalika Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 I mean ... literally everything...... I am so not normal in any way.. I just wish I could be normal. Sometimes I honestly think I would kill myself except I have a son and I couldn't do that to him. I can't believe I just wrote that and I don't know what to do. Link to comment
Crush85 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 I mean ... literally everything...... I am so not normal in any way.. I just wish I could be normal. Sometimes I honestly think I would kill myself except I have a son and I couldn't do that to him. I can't believe I just wrote that and I don't know what to do. Just look at someone who has it worse than you. Literally. Go on google and find pictures of people that are burnt victims, people with tumors on their faces, people with no arms or legs, people that live in the poorest countries ... It won't make you feel better, but maybe it will help you appreciate something about yourself. Link to comment
musicguy Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 all of us don't like a lot of things about ourselves, but killing yourself because of these things isn't worth it. I have times when I want to kill myself, but then I think to myself how I felt when my friend committed suicide this January. I just got a tattoo with an angel on my side and words say "life is far too precious to waste" and when I look at it it's true. I could have killed myself back in junior high, but I'm still here now and I'm fairly content where I'm at. I have friends, family, a roof over my head, a job, etc. A lot of people don't have that Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 link removed You don't have to stay anywhere forever. Seriously, we're programmable. And if you aren't getting the output you want, change the input. Humans adapt. Also, don't think about "normal". It doesn't exist except as something used to shame people who don't toe the line. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 I don't know anyone that is normal. We are all different, and that is fine, Kalika. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 Normal is soo boring...I have learned as i have grown up to love my flaws, the things that make me uniquely me...I used to be super self conscious about a lot of things about myself, my depth of emotion, my pensiveness, my cleft chin...now i look at those things as great parts of who i am...start looking at yourself differently...soften your gaze and see your uniqueness as a gift...there is not one person in this world who is exactly like you...there is something so cool about that..treat yourself with kindness and grace...no one is perfect b/c perfection is boring! embrace who you are and all you have to offer Link to comment
musicguy Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 no one is "normal". What is normal to one person isn't normal to another person Link to comment
MorbidMetalHead87 Posted April 13, 2008 Share Posted April 13, 2008 Kalika I don't know anyone who is perfect or normal. It's just the great thing about people. I think, if you are normal your not normal in a way. And if you are perfect your not perfect in a way. Because what is normal? And being perfect takes away how interesting you can be. Link to comment
Kalika Posted April 15, 2008 Author Share Posted April 15, 2008 I wish my imperfections were little things... but they're not... they're pretty big ones... I'm just so unhappy and I don't know what to do. I am so uncomfortable being me. I feel like I never catch a break on anything in life and I'm just feeling frustrated and sick of trying. Link to comment
musicguy Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 What kind of things do you not catch a break on? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 is this cause you are single and having a tough time? Link to comment
Kalika Posted April 17, 2008 Author Share Posted April 17, 2008 Being single wouldn't be so bad.. I also have a physical disability that is almost emotionally crippling. I won't say what it is on here but let's just say that I've known several people who have what I have and have committed suicide.. because they just couldn't cope with it any longer. I can't even look in the mirror. My body is a mess. My mind is a mess. I get so irritated when people tell me their problems... "ohhh, I'm so fat..." etc....... stupid crap like that. To me, they have no idea how lucky they are in life and I honestly want to spit in their face. Link to comment
desiderium Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 I mean ... literally everything...... I am so not normal in any way.. I just wish I could be normal. Sometimes I honestly think I would kill myself except I have a son and I couldn't do that to him. I can't believe I just wrote that and I don't know what to do. when i feel really bad i go lift weights. Link to comment
Haven Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 This page always makes me feel better about myself: link removed It basically says that you are lovable the way that you are. Every human being deserves love. Also recognize that you are more than just your physical appearance. You have a past, you have a history, you have abilities and skills and opinions and thoughts. You are a person. Just remember- the most important thing is that you are alive. Thousands of people are denied that chance every day. Even if you have a disadvantage, at least you're still alive and taking care of your son. Link to comment
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