SAMRA2 Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Ok so my very new boyfriend has a problem. Whenever we have sex, he comes fast (in around 3 minutes). This is bothering him so much, and he is always feeling he does not deserve me because he cant satisfy me. He says this has not happened to him before, and that it just started recently. He may be just too ashamed to tell me he is an early ejaculator, but anyway, the thing is that last night after sex (and him coming very very fast), he decided he was going to break up with me because he was feeling like crap every time we did it. I think its a male ego thing that made him do that. how can i help him? is there a cure for premature ejaculation? how should i approach this so that i dont hurt him or his ego? this question is probably for the guys Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 there's other ways, has he tried oral? my ex could continue after coming.. can he do that? has he tried? Link to comment
soul_soother Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 ya have him ejaculate during oral and wipe everything off and then start sex.. If he's a guy who goes soft right after wait 5 minutes and go for it again Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 uh.... thinking about breaking up for something like that? That's the only problem I see with this.... Link to comment
SAMRA2 Posted February 20, 2008 Author Share Posted February 20, 2008 so if he comes fast the first time, he would last longer the 2nd time? does this work for premature ejaculators too? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Yeah, he would last a lot longer since he has nothing to ejaculate the second time around. You could also try oral until he builds up the stamina. Link to comment
Space Ghost Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Yesterday I went for about 10 or 12 minutes before busting. About an hour later we went at it again and I lasted about 45 minutes. Maybe try a little later after the initial time? Link to comment
soul_soother Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Lol there will be some left to burst everywhere... Plenty of guys can have multiple cummings. I have 5 times in 1 night trust me there's plenty the other times.. But if you've ever watched porno most times the girl will make a guy cum through oral so the sex lasts longer and then they cum again after sex Link to comment
dannycee Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 there is actually a lot of info on this, just google it! im sure i am not just speaking for myself, but almost always at the start of a new relationship when she is still very "new" i tend to cum for her a lot faster, of course after a few runs though im GTG. i did actually go to an adult store in town a while back when i was trying to find a quick fix to this, and the dude in there actually recommended me something.... he called it "china man in a bottle", and im sure there are tons of other similar things of this nature. it came in a really tiny bottle, with a twist off cap that attached to it had a q-tip like deal... i would rub it up/down my shaft and on my head ~30 min prior to getting sexually active, and boy i tell you once we started, i would last forever and i would make her cum over and over and over... was great sex. hope this helps! Link to comment
northwoods Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Maybe if you allowed him to fully satisfy you prior to having sex, he wouldn't feel obligated to last so long during sex. Then you both win! Plus - you could wait a few mins (5 - 10) after his orgasm and start fooling around again. If he's playing with you after he comes, he will get excited again. Link to comment
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