gravity Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Quick background story: two weeks ago the ex I had been seeing again (and thought I had been winning back) told me in no uncertain terms that there was no way we were ever getting back together. I was devastated, heartbroken, you name it. At work all I could think about was how I could win her back, but by the time i got home to call or email or whatever i would realize how silly i was being and wouldn't. We both still care about each other, and both want to be friends but I needed some space to get over her and she was willing to give it too me. The Scoop: She came over last night to pick something up from my apartment and we had about 10 minutes alone to talk. She tells me she has a new boyfriend she has been official with since valentines day. I stood dumbfounded and waiting to get upset or angry or jealous or something . . . IT DIDN'T HAPPEN! She even showed me some pictures of him, sitting on her couch . . . He looks like he could be my twin! same body type, same face, exact same nose and facial expression. I think she has the exact same picture of me in the same place even. I told her i was glad she's found someone and I am, because I love her and want her to be happy. Today I feel great! no delusions about winning her back. I know for sure i have no chance! Even though I still miss her I feel for the first time in two weeks that I can finally move on! I've turned the corner. No real point to this post, I just wanted to tell you guys that I've turned the corner in the most surprising of ways. So chin up everyone going trough a tough breakup, there is hope! Link to comment
gravity Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 well she asked if i wanted to see, and i did . . . and I'm glad, I think it's funny Link to comment
nic2463 Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Ye right! I had the same thing trying to save the relationship until the death nail of a new fella was metioned.You are defeated and the feelings you have are of calmness before the storm.Give it a few days and you will be thinking of them 2 and the pain will blow up.Unless your incredbly resiliant it hurts. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Nice to hear that you took it so well. I guess seeing the pics of her and the guy made it more real. Perhaps her showing them to you was EVEN BETTER somehow. I mean I remember coming accross pics of an ex and his new girl on a site like myspace a week or so after our break up and OMG... I had haunting nightmares for some time and I just felt like someone had stabbed me in the heart literally. Link to comment
gravity Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 Ye right! I had the same thing trying to save the relationship until the death nail of a new fella was metioned.You are defeated and the feelings you have are of calmness before the storm.Give it a few days and you will be thinking of them 2 and the pain will blow up.Unless your incredbly resiliant it hurts. I'm pretty sure that happened already two weekends ago when she hooked up with another guy at a party we were both at, 12 hours after breaking my heart. now THAT was pain, and i mean physically painful. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I'm pretty sure that happened already two weekends ago when she hooked up with another guy at a party we were both at, 12 hours after breaking my heart. now THAT was pain, and i mean physically painful. Wow... she sounds pretty inconsiderate to me... I would never do that to someone who I dumped. Maybe be a bit more less open about it sheesh. What happened to sparing peoples feelings. I guess the good thing which comes with her inconsiderateness is that she didn't leave you with false hopes. Link to comment
nic2463 Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Shes Some girl mate your better out of it ,maybe you realise that and thats why you dont give a toss. Link to comment
gravity Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 Wow... she sounds pretty inconsiderate to me... I would never do that to someone who I dumped. Maybe be a bit more less open about it sheesh. What happened to sparing peoples feelings. I guess the good thing which comes with her inconsiderateness is that she didn't leave you with false hopes. Yeah, that night definitely changed my opinion of her as a person. but again, there was a funny side to that also; the "guy" was 16 and has a GF (both still in Highschool) he is the the little brother of a friend of hers. She's 23. Although i didn't find it funny at the time, looking back it sure is. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Yeah, that night definitely changed my opinion of her as a person. but again, there was a funny side to that also; the "guy" was 16 and has a GF (both still in Highschool) he is the the little brother of a friend of hers. She's 23. Although i didn't find it funny at the time, looking back it sure is. hahaha yea.. I know what you mean. I am the same: I will find something bad and see the humor. It is a bit pathetic.. what did she wait for her friends brother to become legal so she could put the moves? Link to comment
SweetSmilingYeti Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 psssh her new bf looks just like you eh? That says a lot.... Link to comment
amure Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 why would you want to see your exGF with another guy? What's funny about it its funny because hes over her. good on you man, i hope to maybe be thre soon XD i think im getting there Link to comment
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