Forumzguy Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 well i like this one girl in my school. i don't have a class with her or anything but everytime we see each other in the hallway we would look at each other and smile. today when school ends i came up to her and ask her for a hug. is that a little bit weird? she knows that i like her though. Link to comment
Portage Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Well i would find it kind of needy and crossing over into my personal space, but that is me. Now if you had gone out on a date or coffee or a walk or anything else...no. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 imo yes. i just let a girl initiate hugging me.....and if i know her well enough then i'll hug her........but asking for a hug? no... does that mean its weird, hell no, friend of mine in 12th grade asked a girl for a hug and she gave it to him........ Link to comment
flower99 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 sure it's a little weird, but who ever said being weird is bad? some people have thier own personally bubble that might be violating...but others, like myself, welcome it & would figure you must be having a rough day - I'd give you a hug. but don't do it daily, that would definietly be needy & weird in a bad way...lol Link to comment
shikashika Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 you talk to her a lot right? if you are friends, sure... if you are a random guy at school just asking for a hug, then yes, i'd find it a bit odd! Link to comment
SuperSport Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I just get to talking to them, and after i know she is comfortable with me around her, i will just walk up and open my arms. Works every time. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 just dont be to aggressive, dont ask her for oral Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I wouldn't ever ask for a hug. That's too "kiddie". Just hug her. "Well, see ya later Jess!" *reaches out and hugs her* Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Yeah I don't think asking her for a hug was the best thing. It depends on teh context. If you and she were talking and you just talked about something sad, for example, it is ok to say "give me a hug". Out of the blue that would feel strange to me, even if i were still in highschool. I get the feeling you don't really know her other than passing in the hallway and smiling so asking for a hug might have made her feel strange. But how did she react? Did she seem ok with it? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 'awwww, u look so good today. i gotta hug you.' and walk off. lol she be thinkin of you all day. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Now Ghost's approach might be well rec'd. Depends on if she already thinks you're cute. LOL Which I assume she does if you two are smiling at each other in the hallway a lot. Link to comment
Forumzguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 well i kinda know her in someway. this is what i said to her " can i have a hug before you leave?" then i hugged her Link to comment
JadedStar Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 If she hugged you and didn't look weirded out afterwards then I'd say she must have been fine with it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 in this case my approach still works. or 'give me a hug.' and just do it. don't ask. if a stranger, yes weird. but display your intentions. show her you like her. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Did she seem weirded out by your request? Link to comment
Forumzguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 i don't know if she did. i can't tell if a girl likes me or not. one day she came to my class to see me. so we talked a little in the hallway. and how do i tell her that i like her? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 she came to your class to see you? and you just chatted? you should have made ur move right there. hands down. do not pass up another opportunity like this. Link to comment
Forumzguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 cuz im so stupid i get really nervous in front of girls i like. but girls who i don't like i talk to them like any other friends. what move should i make on her? im pretty newby at getting girls and i have no game Link to comment
Forumzguy Posted December 5, 2007 Author Share Posted December 5, 2007 she came with a friend of her too. cuz im so stupid i get really nervous in front of girls i like. but girls who i don't like i talk to them like any other friends. what move should i make on her? im pretty newby at getting girls and i have no game. oops sorry for double reply Link to comment
Phaser Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Ask her to do something after school. Hang out, get pie I don't know. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 yeah, get some pie. lol but your game should be your personality. display it. show her you like her. do not worry what others think. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Ask her to do something after school. Hang out, get pie I don't know. damn straight women love pie Link to comment
Phaser Posted December 7, 2007 Share Posted December 7, 2007 Shepard's Pie. I was going to say Ice-cream in my first post but I realised that it is winter in USA. Assuming OP is in the US. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 7, 2007 Share Posted December 7, 2007 wrong pie i was thinking about gettin. Link to comment
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