beautifulbutterfly19 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 i dont know if im doing this for the wrong reason? women take birth control to.. regulate there periods help control your acne have sex so u dont become pregent but i feel so bad..... if anyone found i was thinking of having sex with my bf (except maybe my bf) iddddd diee!!!! omg i jsut dont know maybe i should wait and talk to him about it before i just sayy hey im on birth control also what are some that work and dont work so well? Link to comment
WillyD Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 I imagine you should talk to any significant other before considering moving the relationship to a sexual level like that. So thats a good idea. As for which medicines I'm sure your local doc could help you pick out the right kind that works for you. WillyD Link to comment
shikashika Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 why are you so worried about people finding out you are having sex? or on birth control? family? parents? friends? Link to comment
moxi_crimefighter Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 people use it for many different reasons..... i use it to control the growth of a tumor in my utrus and also to regulate my cycle... but being on the pill doesnt mean you should go out and be reckless and have sex and not be safe about it! and i dont think you should be worried about who know ur on the pill.... i think now-a-days its more common and most people arent going to assume ur on it to have sex... get more info about the pill....it has become more and more useful for lots of women other than just sex!!!!!!! be safe! Link to comment
jengh Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 okay, wanting to be on BC is the responsible thing. It's nothing to be ashamed of...and think of it this way-- would you rather get on the pill and have sex (with a condom, of course) and be safe... OR, would you rather be too embarrassed to go on the pill, have the condom break and get knocked up? Which would be more embarrassing? Link to comment
moxi_crimefighter Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 okay, wanting to be on BC is the responsible thing. It's nothing to be ashamed of...and think of it this way-- would you rather get on the pill and have sex (with a condom, of course) and be safe... OR, would you rather be too embarrassed to go on the pill, have the condom break and get knocked up? Which would be more embarrassing? she's got a point there! Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 If you are so embarrassed by the idea, YOU ARE NOT READY. You need to grow up and figure out that sex and BC go hand and hand, people have sex and unless they want kids BC is going to be needed. The only person that can tell you what BC is best for you is your doctor, they will be aware of your medications and medical history. Link to comment
iFlirt Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Its okay to be embarrased. I started BC oh.... nine nonths ago? About 8 months before I started having sex, lol I tried to bring it up to my SO... getting his views... but he really could have cared less... becasue we werent active yet he was of the opinion that its was up to me, so I think its okay if you dont talk about it with your SO yet. Also, by starting before your really ready for sex, you will get into the routine of taking the pill around the same time every day without the pressure and stress of being active and getting used to new hormones in your body. If you want it, go for it Link to comment
beautifulbutterfly19 Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 well if you knew my background youd understand y id be embarrassed. i was taught not to have sex before marriage MY WHOLE LIFE!! but i dont think its wrong. i think if you feel ready in your relationship to move to the sexual level you should. i want to be verrry smart and verry safe about sex! its not something to mess with, I KNOW!! i wouldnt even think of having sex unless i was on birth control and he used a condom Link to comment
iFlirt Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Been there... I grew up in the church, kinda shunned because my mom was a single teen mom... so yah, the pressure of the church towards wedlock is crazy... But, if you feel that there is even the slightest chance of BC being helpful to you or your health, you need to put that first... no matter how embarrassing it is. Heck, I had that awkward talk with my mom and then the awkward gyno... its all awkward and embarrassing, it just comes with the territory Its just better to be safe than sorry, at least in my opinion. And it seems you know that. But in the end you need to make the decision thats best for YOU Link to comment
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