How could things change overnight?

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Here is my situation...a few days ago my boyfriend told me he wanted to

possible break up. I went to his house that night. We didn't really

talk about anything important. The only thing he really said to me was

that he didn't know about things. He feels restless and hasn't felt

like this with anyone before. Anyway, we left on good terms. He kissed

me and everything was fine. Later on the night I needed to talk to

him. I was on the verge of going insane. I text messaged and called,

but nothing. He never returned my call. I wrote a nice email telling

him how I felt, nothing. I left him a message saying I hope he has a

good time tonight with his friends the next night, nothing.

I'm not sure what to do. How could things change overnight?

I really wish I could talk to him. Anyway, I don't know what to do.

I have no one to talk to about this. I really would like to talk to him.

He's such a sweet guy, which is why him ignoring me is so shocking.

[Archivist]

Hi there,

 

I can't say I know what your boyfriend is doing, but Its pretty clear that he wants time and space to himself for him to wrk out what he wants. Maybe leave him a message saying that your not sure whats hes doing, but you can tell that he wants time to think about something, and for him to contact you when he is ready to tell you what is bothering him. Try not to leave "bother" him so much as you might start to push him further away.

 

But I must warn you, be preapred for anything. Something is obviously bothering him, and hes probably confused at this moment too, which is why he has not replied yet. I hope things work out for you. Good luck