"Breakup" After Two Years

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Well, she got a hold of me this morning. (For the record, I didn't call her until she contacted me first.) We are having dinner next week.

 

This weekend I am going to try and get out of town for a wedding. Over the weekend, I'm going to have a lot of thinking to do.

 

For all my ex knows, I want her back (per our conversations immediately after the breakup.) Here is how I would like to see things go down:

Another month or two off, little to no contact. Then start over, with dates, and work up to where we feel comfortable.

 

I think that she still does not know what she wants for the future. Should I tell her what I want at dinner? Or am I simply going to have to bite the bullet and see what happens? I am at the point where, while I miss her, I am doing pretty well. I can be happy without her.

 

...After writing this down, I think I already know the answer. Venting on here helps tons, as do your responses.