deelove2010 Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Hi guy's Just wanted to know if anybodys EX who dumped them has gone off travelling and did they ever get back in contact with you after they came back! my ex is off travelling next month and I'm feeling really freaked out! anybody been in the same boat! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Mine did, and it didn't bother me. She's my ex. Why does this bother you since after all, she's your ex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deelove2010 Posted June 6, 2007 Author Share Posted June 6, 2007 i know dako I just feel freaked out, that she is leaving this country, I shouldn't let it bother me but it does! I've lived 4mths without her so that must be a good sign! just need something new happening in my life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 Seems like you have trouble letting go. Have you found some new interests for yourself? When I was recovering, I bought a shiny red motorcycle and got out in the hills. It helped me focus on me me me me. Anything to get out of the house, meet people and feel something positive. You must have hobbies or interests you set aside for her, or something you've aways wanted. Now's the time it'll really help most. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deelove2010 Posted June 6, 2007 Author Share Posted June 6, 2007 well dako the story goes! when me and my EX split over 4mths ago I decided to work on myself I went into strict NC in this time my friend I joined a gym with my friend I go there 3 times a week for an hour! I started to take my driving lesson and most importantly got myself a NEW job in the city which starts on the 9th of july! My ex emailed me 4 weeks ago out of the blue, just to say hello, if i was ok and have i found a new job! this angered me so i repiled back coldly but it was polite, like hello hope ur doing well! since than she has been on my mind constantly it not funny so I than decided to go on her myspace page after 3mths of not looking at it and found out she was going travelling etc! her life was really on the upo, she was having fun! I emailed her yesterday she replied back saying she was going travelling with one of her GUY friends she is meeting out there so i replied back that i was happy for her she was going travelling etc told her about my new job and hope that we could hook up as mates after she gets back from travelling! she hasn't replied back with a congratulations on your new job, that I'm happy for you like I did her, she can be selfish! I'm just feeling confused and lonely mate, was wondering if anybody else had gone through what Im going at the moment! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 It's really hard to recover if you pin your feelings to the ex's actions. I've done that myself, so I understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deelove2010 Posted June 6, 2007 Author Share Posted June 6, 2007 dako how did you pull yourself through it! I can't wait to start my new job I will meet new ppl wrk up in the city be able to go out for drinks with my friends! but I know in the back of my mind I be wondering what my EX is getting up to in OZ and that her life will be more exciting than mine, this is what I'm finding hard! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperDave71 Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 I could NOT agree more Dako... -SuperDave71 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 dako how did you pull yourself through it! I can't wait to start my new job I will meet new ppl wrk up in the city be able to go out for drinks with my friends! but I know in the back of my mind I be wondering what my EX is getting up to in OZ and that her life will be more exciting than mine, this is what I'm finding hard! Living well is the best revenge. I know that's trite, but you can make your own dreams happen. Sounds like you're working on career and finding your place in life. Letting go is hard, but will pay dividends in the future. In my case, the ex went off on vacations around the country and I was a little envious, then she became gravely ill. I was so thrilled at her recovery, the divorce seemed like a distant issue. Her misfortunes didn't give me any pleasure. I dunno, time seems to heal things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGetUpKid Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 My ex and I broke up because she was studying abroad in Italy for 5 months if that counts?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S.Ken Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 My ex is going to Sweden for a month and I couldn't care less. Okay, so maybe I'm a little jealous because she's going overseas, but I felt the same way when my friend traveled to New Zealand.... in fact I was insanely jealous of him for that! Bastard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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