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  1. TheGetUpKid
    Well alot of it has do with me just graduating and job searching. It gets frustrating, sending resume after resume and not getting any responses. With my ex, I just wish she would pick up her stuff already. Shes been hounding me for what seems like months to get her stuff back but something always comes up and she never ends up picking it up. And shes also really wants to have a friendship with me. She sent me txt message a few weeks ago saying: "I've been thinking lately and I really wish we could be friends. I miss you"
  2. TheGetUpKid
    I've been better... my mood has been all over the place lately. I will be happy and positive for a few days and then its back down to being negative and depressed. I have been in more constant contact with the ex but I figure its been almost a year since we broke up and I should sorta have some kind of friendship with her.
  3. TheGetUpKid
    Don't you mean i-vtec??? ( I have a rsx as well) Day 10 The calls havent stoped but it is as freuquent. She left me a voicemail on tuesday night I believe saying "It would be nice if you would call me back". She sounded quite annoyed and angry. Oh well doesnt bother me at all anymore.
  4. TheGetUpKid
    Day 7 I dont know why but I have been feeling exceptionally good lately. I had a sociolgy exam today that I was nervous about but turned at to be relatively easy. I also have an interview next monday which Im really exited about. If it goes well I may have a job waiting for me when I graduate. On another note, my ex tried to contact me numerous times on saturday. First was a txt message asking if I was back home for the weekend (Our colleges are about 2 hrs aprt). Once I got the message I immediately turned off my phone because I knew call from her was calling. Sure enough when I turned my phone back on I had a voicemail from her. On top of that I get a call from her at 2 in the morning. Take Care Everyone
  5. TheGetUpKid
    Day 4 My EX txt messaged me once again "HI hi hi hi". Thats all she said. And about 5 minutes I she calls me twice from some weird number. I knew it was her because she tries to call from someone elses cell or a number I wont recognize in an attempt that I will pick up. Its been almost 8 months since our breakup and I still think about her all day. I try not to, but its hard. I miss her but I dont want to get back together with her, but I just wish she wasnt always on my mind.
  6. TheGetUpKid
    Day 1 again...... After about 3 weeks of NC Im back to Day 1. My ex called me from a different number because she knew I wouldnt answer if I knew if it was her calling. She left me a voicemail saying that she had to ask me an "important" question. A few minutes later I get a txt saying the same thing. So naturally I thought maybe it was important and it was an emergency. Her "important" question was just her asking where a certain store was............ I was really furious and barely said anything to her on the phone. And well for some reason I got really upset and broke down and started to cry after I got off the phone...... Its been 7 months and I really cant take her crap anymore. Im tempted to send her an email telling her to stop contacting me but I know she wouldnt respect my wishes. She also sent me another txt saying "thanks for calling back, it was good to talk to you". Any advice or suggestions???
  7. TheGetUpKid
    Thanks papalazarou your 100% right. It seems like Im always going in circles with my ex. We were actually talking about getting back together a few months ago and she did flat out told me that she was in love we me and that she wanted me in her life. However actions speak louder than words and she never really made the effort to be with me. So I get another txt message today: "So I take it your ignoring me" If I hadnt gone through this situation a million times with her already I probably wouldve responded. But I know better now and if I do nothing will change and I will just end up feeling worse.
  8. TheGetUpKid
    I dont feel like starting a new thread so I hope its okay that I post in here. Anyways I'm about three weeks of NC with my ex. About a month ago She had called my brother drunk telling him how much she loved me and wanted to get back together with me (My ex sees my brother as her own older brother). So I emailed her asking if she truly meant what she said if it was just drunk talk. She never replied back and everytime I talked to her about she would always "promise" to email me back. Well after the third "promise" I decided I had enough and went NC once again. She left a voicemail yesterday wishing me a happy Valentines day. And today she called which I ignored and sent me a txt message saying "Im at hong kong (a chinese takeout place we always ordered from) and it really makes me think of you... please call me" Is it immature of me for not answering any of her calls and basically ignoring her??
  9. TheGetUpKid
    Chemical Romance (awesome band btw): I'm actually going thru a very similar situation right now except for the sleeping part. My ex have been talking about getting back together for awhile now but this past month I have been completely confused if she truly wants to be with me. Like you we have been hanging out once every few weeks or so. And the last time we hung out we were holding hands, cuddling on the couch, kissing, and saying "I love you". The thing is though, a week ago she got drunk and called my brother telling him how much she wants to be with and loves me but doesn't know what to do since I haven't really shown that I want to be with her. Well I sent her an email asking her if she truly meant what she said or if it was just drunk talk. And even after she promised she would email me back she still hasnt...... and its been over a week now...... I have been contemplating going NC again and letting go because I really don't think my heart can take this anymore. If I were you I would talk to her first to see if she does or doesn't want to be with you. She may feel just as confused as you. If your hurting too much and you dont feel that she wants to get back together than I would just go NC. Anyways I hope you feel better.
  10. TheGetUpKid
    I'm going through a similar situation right now with me ex. We arent together but she said she wants to take things slow. But she doesnt put any effort into spending time with me. The only advice I can give (everyone else has said this as well) is that actions speak louder than words.
  11. TheGetUpKid
    So the ex and I talk about once a week. The conversations are always very light and fun so I guess thats a good sign? I havent seen her in a couple of weeks so I was planning on asking her on a date or something. Should I avoid asking her where we stand in terms of getting back together? I'm afraid if I ask her this will make me seem needy but I dont want this to turn into a "friendship". Or should I just continue at her pace? At what point do I just say forget it and just give up?? Sorry for all the questions.
  12. TheGetUpKid
    There has been a mixture of signals from her. The first day I saw her she initiated the first kiss. She invited me to her house for Christmas lunch and basically hung out with her the whole day. During that time she looked through my cell phone to see if I had any new girl’s numbers and asking me if I still had all of stuff from when we were together (pictures of us and such). On the other hand, besides from hanging out with me those couple of times it seems she always chooses to be with her friends instead of me. She told me that she got hit on by a guy when she was to dinner and give him her number (I understand that we aren’t together but I still felt sorta weird when she told me that).
  13. TheGetUpKid
    When getting back together with an ex and they say they want to “take things slow” is it actually possible to take things too slowly? I’m asking this question because my ex has just returned from Italy a couple of weeks ago. During that time she was away we were talking about getting back together when she came back. When we talked through email or the phone we would tell each other that we loved each other and referring to one another by our “pet” names. Basically talking like we were a couple again. Well, ever since she came back we no longer exchange “I love you”s and told me that she wants to take things slowly (which I understand why) but that she does still have feelings for me. We have hung out a few times and talk every few days or so. I guess I’m just really afraid of this turning into a friendship and not a relationship. There have been some signals that suggest that she may just be looking for a friendship and I’m just really confused. I may be just over analyzing our situation but I don’t know. And heres a past thread if you want more background info:
  14. TheGetUpKid
    yup, even though during the breakup I was the one who I did the actual "breaking up" part since her only response to all the questions I asked was "I dont know". I still consider myself the dumpee though. She just did'nt respect me enough to break up with me herself.
  15. TheGetUpKid
    I wish I knew the answer iminpain too. The only thing I could think of is that they feel the need to still be a part of your life in any way, shape or form. Like what everyone else said it also has to do with thier ego. I remember when I was doing NC with my ex and she sent me an email telling me that it hurts her that I was cutting off all contact with her and that I was "throwing away four years down the drain".
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